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hurtful

hurtful

75 2.8
Causing pain to someone's feelings or making them feel upset
  • adjective
  • /ˈhɜrtfəl/
: hiriente
  • And what you said to those people was really hurtful.
  • hurtful comments
  • hurtful words
  • emotionally hurtful

I mean, I could see how that would be hurtful for him.

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Examples

  • Sometimes it's better to stay away than to hear what is hurtful.

  • We say things that could be hurtful and that are hurtful.

  • I mean, I could see how that would be hurtful for him.

  • I know I said some really hurtful things there.

  • Every day online, there are thousands of kids who say mean and hurtful things because they can.

    Academic text (2009)
  • 58% of kids say someone has been mean or hurtful to them online.

    Academic text (2011)
  • And despite what you said, despite your words being hurtful, I think it's true.

  • Criticism, on the other hand, is not constructive, often can be hurtful, and can lead to feelings of resentment.

    Academic text (2003)
  • It can be hurtful to our own self esteem.

  • What you said was really hurtful, especially because I thought we were friends.

Synonyms

mean
vshurtful
869 2.2

Unkind and cruel toward other people

may cause hurt but does not always imply deliberate meanness
painful
vshurtful
670 1.0

Making someone feel physical hurt or strong emotional upset

is mainly about causing harm likely to hurt someone emotionally
cruel
vshurtful
474 2.7

Willing to cause pain or suffering to others

does not always involve deliberate intention to harm
harsh
vshurtful
296 2.8

Unkind and too strict in what someone says or does to others

aims at causing pain or distress rather than showing strictness
vicious
vshurtful
267 5.2

Deliberately cruel and likely to hurt someone

is about causing pain or distress without the violent intention
brutal
vshurtful
  • NSFW
230 4.8

Very cruel and violent, causing pain or suffering

may hurt feelings but is less extreme and less violent
harmful
vshurtful
158 2.6

Causing damage to people, animals or things

focuses more on personal pain or emotional hurt rather than general damage
abusive
vshurtful
  • NSFW
152 5.1

Causing physical or mental harm to someone by cruel treatment

is stronger, involving abuse rather than ordinary unpleasantness
damaging
vshurtful
126 3.1

Likely to cause harm to a person or to their things

centres specifically on causing pain or distress to a person
hateful
vshurtful
111 3.6

Making people feel strong dislike or anger

can cause distress but does not always involve deep hostility
malicious
vshurtful
83 5.8

Wanting to hurt someone or damage their good name

may cause hurt without necessarily intending to cause harm
derogatory
vshurtful
36 6.9

Expressing an insulting, disrespectful view of someone or something

is broader, covering any action that causes pain or distress
abrasive
vshurtful
20 6.5

Showing little concern for other people's feelings

can hurt feelings but does not always show deliberate unkindness
bruising
vshurtful
12 6.3

Causing strong emotional pain and making you feel upset

is about causing pain or distress without implying lasting depth
stinging
vshurtful
8 6.3

Harsh or hurtful in a way that makes someone feel upset

covers causing pain in any way, not only through speech
wounding
vshurtful
7 6.3

Causing emotional pain or hurt

focuses on causing pain or distress generally rather than only emotion
unsparing
vshurtful
2 7.9

Very harsh and not forgiving when criticizing or acting

can cause hurt but does not always suggest total lack of mercy
distressful
vshurtful
1 6.2

Making someone feel very worried or upset

is broader, including direct pain or harm not only worry
meanspirited
vshurtful
  • Offensive
1 7.4

Unkind and petty in a way that hurts other people

covers causing hurt generally without the small, spiteful quality

Antonyms

905 1.0

Being helpful and caring toward other people

408 1.0

Kind and not strong in action, sound, or touch

How Hurtful

cruel
474 2.7
malicious
83 5.8
hurtful
75 2.8
insensitive
119 4.6
thoughtless
32 4.0

Surface Forms

hurtful positive
hurtfull positive

Morphology

hurtful = hurt (transparent) = hurt + ful

Formed by adding the productive adjective-forming suffix '-ful' to 'hurt', yielding 'full of or causing hurt', which is directly derivable.

Etymology

Hurtful comes from hurt ('to cause pain') and the ending -ful ('full of'). So a hurtful remark is like being 'full of causing pain', which explains why words can make someone feel upset.