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abusive

abusive

132 5.1
Causing physical or mental harm to someone by cruel treatment
  • adjective
  • /əˈbjuːsɪv/
  • NSFW
translation icon : abusivo
  • So my real father was an abusive alcoholic, physically abusive alcoholic to my mother.
  • abusive behavior
  • an abusive relationship
  • an abusive partner

The child is the recipient of severely abusive sexual violence.

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Examples

  • The actions you took against that man were abusive and cruel.

  • My dad was drinking way beyond control and was abusive and all that sort of stuff.

  • Her father is abusive towards her mother.

  • His father was abusive to him and to his mother.

  • And prior to that I was myself in an abusive relationship when I was very young.

  • I just left my abusive boyfriend.

  • And that keeps people trapped in abusive relationships.

  • What happens when their legal guardian is dangerous and abusive?

  • Like Wendy, I grew up in a very abusive environment.

  • Her father was abusive and often yelled at her and her mother.

Synonyms

violent
vsabusive
  • Offensive
2.5

Using strong force that causes harm

also covers nonphysical harm and less overt aggression
harsh
vsabusive
289 2.8

Unkind and too strict in what someone says or does to others

is more specific, stressing intentional harm rather than general unkindness
brutal
vsabusive
  • NSFW
229 4.8

Very cruel and violent, causing pain or suffering

includes such cruelty but also nonviolent psychological mistreatment
vicious
vsabusive
222 5.2

Deliberately cruel and likely to hurt someone

is broader, covering both physical harm and psychological mistreatment
hurtful
vsabusive
76 2.8

Causing pain to someone's feelings or making them feel upset

is stronger, also involving cruelty or physical violence often
severe
vsabusive
68 4.2

Very strict and harsh when judging or punishing people

focuses more on causing harm than on strictness alone
oppressive
vsabusive
43 6.3

Using harsh, unfair power to control people and limit their freedom

is similar but can be individual cruelty, not only systemic control
heavy-handed
vsabusive
14 6.3

Using too much force or strict control when dealing with people

covers such force but also deliberate cruelty beyond heavy control
assaultive
vsabusive
  • NSFW
2 8.2

Likely to attack or hurt other people physically

covers this tendency but also planned psychological harm
unsparing
vsabusive
2 7.9

Very harsh and not forgiving when criticizing or acting

includes that ruthlessness but also physical or psychological abuse
roughshod
vsabusive
1 8.9

Acting in a harsh way that ignores other people's feelings

is broader, also covering violent or intentionally harmful behaviour
bullying
vsabusive
  • Offensive
3.7

Being loud and aggressive to frighten others

covers that intimidation but also includes physical or severe harm

Antonyms

99 2.0

Wanting to keep someone safe from harm

54 1.6

A kind feeling and concern for other people

How Violent

torturous
  • Offensive
16 8.4
violent
  • Offensive
2.5
abusive
  • NSFW
132 5.1
cruel
522 2.7
harsh
120 2.9

Surface Forms

abusive positive

Morphology

abusive = abuse (transparent) = abuse + ive

Regular adjectival formation from 'abuse' with '-ive'; the sense 'involving physical or psychological harm' follows directly from the base meaning.

Etymology

Abusive comes from the word abuse, which originally meant 'to use wrongly' and had the parts ab- 'away' and use 'to use'. So abusive treatment means 'using' a person wrongly, which is why it describes harm that is physical or psychological.