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to push away

to push away

66 3.2
To stop other people from getting close to you emotionally
  • phrasal verb
: alejar
  • When I'm feeling vulnerable, I tend to push away those who want to help me.
  • push away people
  • try to push away
  • keep pushing people away

The lying really pushed away the help that I needed.

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Examples

  • I was doing exactly the wrong thing, pushing him away.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • I am so sorry that I pushed you away.

  • And you were either so afraid of it that you push it away, or you long for it like I did.

  • The lying really pushed away the help that I needed.

  • But you, but you pushed me away from this.

  • Your dad is reaching out to you, and you keep pushing him away.

  • I regret that now more than anything because that is what pushed you away from me.

    Blog text (30)
  • They push you away when they need you the most.

  • All I can say is I'm just so sorry for treating you like I did and for pushing you away.

  • If you start pushing people away, eventually they just leave you alone... with your thoughts, with your demons, with the sound of your own breathing.

Synonyms

to stay away
vsto push away
711 1.6

Keep a distance from people or things you want to avoid

is a deliberate rejection of contact rather than mere avoidance
to stay away from
vsto push away
570 2.3

Avoid going near people or places for safety

is avoidance for reasons rather than an emotional act of rejection
to back off
vsto push away
  • Informal
443 2.8

Move away from someone, or stop taking part in something

is commonly a refusal to connect rather than a simple retreat
to keep away
vsto push away
335 1.6

Stop someone or something from coming near

is a personal decision to reject contact rather than external prevention
to pull back
vsto push away
320 3.4

To move yourself and things backward from a place, person, or situation

is commonly a social refusal rather than a tactical retreat
to withdraw
vsto push away
311 2.8

To stop taking part in a place or activity

is more about actively refusing social contact than mere absence
to pull out
vsto push away
228 3.4

To stop being involved in an activity or agreement

is about rejecting social ties rather than just leaving commitments
to pull away
vsto push away
153 3.5

To move away from people or a place to create space

is usually an emotional rejection rather than simple physical movement
to back away
vsto push away
111 3.9

Stop supporting or taking part in a plan because you feel unsure

is often a cautious withdrawal, not a firm personal rejection
to alienate
vsto push away
104 6.7

To make someone feel alone and lose support from others

often involves causing isolation rather than withdrawing oneself socially
to distance
vsto push away
86 5.7

To make yourself less involved with someone or something

is more about active rejection than gentle detachment
to scare away
vsto push away
77 2.5

Make a person or animal go away because they are afraid

is a personal rejection born in choice, not in frightening others
to drive away
vsto push away
75 3.4

To force a person, animal, or feeling to go away

is an inward rejection rather than forcing others out
to turn away from
vsto push away
65 3.7

To refuse to have anything to do with someone or something

is narrower, focusing on active rejection in personal relations
to put off
vsto push away
54 3.7

Make someone not want to do something

often results in social distance rather than direct intentional rejection
to repel
vsto push away
50 4.2

Make someone or something move back and stay away, often by using force

is an internal rejection rather than active physical repulsion
to shy away from
vsto push away
46 4.6

Avoid doing something because you feel afraid or unsure

tends to be avoidance due to fear rather than deliberate rejection
to drift away
vsto push away
24 4.5

To slowly lose contact and closeness with someone

is an active rejection rather than a slow, unplanned drifting
to fall out
vsto push away
20 3.6

To stop being friendly with someone after an argument

is a deliberate distancing choice rather than a relationship's consequence
to push people away
vsto push away
9 5.6

Act in a way that makes other people avoid you

is an inward refusal or social rejection by one's own behaviour
to repulse
vsto push away
6 7.0

To make someone or something go away

is about refusing emotional closeness rather than actively expelling others
to push aside
vsto push away
6 4.1

Refuse to think about something, for example worries or objections

is more about emotional rejection rather than mere dismissal
to shrink back
vsto push away
  • Informal
4 4.7

Move away because you are afraid or disgusted

is less deliberate, often a fearful reaction not a chosen rejection
to distance oneself from
vsto push away
1 7.0

Keep away from someone or something to show no connection

is a stronger act of rejecting others rather than quiet separation
to unattach
vsto push away
1 7.5

To stop feeling close to someone or something

is about rejecting relationships actively rather than just breaking a bond
to keep one's distance
vsto push away
1 3.9

To stay away from people or things to avoid close contact

is a deliberate rejection of closeness rather than casual separation
to kick someone to the curb
vsto push away
  • Informal
9.4

Suddenly stop seeing or talking to someone

is a harsh, sudden rejection rather than gradual distancing

How Rejecting

to ostracize
  • US
29 7.7
to shun
72 4.6
to push away
66 3.2
to withdraw
311 2.8
to pull away
153 3.5

Surface Forms

push away infinitive
pushed away past participle
pushing away present participle
pushes away third person singular

Morphology

push + away

The sense 'to reject or distance oneself' is a straightforward extension of the literal meaning of 'push' (apply force) + 'away' (to a distance): pushing something away physically maps naturally onto rejecting or keeping someone at a distance. This motion-to-social metaphor is common cross-linguistically and aligns with regular English verb+particle composition, so a B1 learner who knows the constituents should be able to infer the MWE meaning.

Etymology

Push away also has a feeling meaning and it comes from the same picture: imagine someone using their hands or stepping back to keep another person at a distance. That's why it means 'to reject or keep someone at a distance', especially in feelings.