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to grate

to grate

9 6.7
Annoy someone more and more over time
  • verb
  • /ɡreɪt/
  • Informal
translation icon : fastidiar
  • But their laughter grated; their amusement was always at someone else's expense.

Looking around, seeing all these busy bodies and it just grates on my nerves.

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Examples

  • Those same singsong rhymes over and over... are enough to grate on my nerves.

  • The sad state of hotel service grates on a road dog like Dick.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • I know they tend to grate after a while.

  • So, you know, you will always know that you grate on them, but you grate on them because they can't control you.

  • The dirty table cloth's beginning to grate on me.

  • Here is a real-world problem that tends to grate on every airplane traveler's nerves.

    Academic text (2007)
  • Loretta stirred milk into her coffee cup with that little clink-clink sound that grated on Arlene's nerves.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • The constant noise from the construction site began to grate on my patience as the days wore on.

  • Her habit of interrupting others during conversations really started to grate on my nerves.

  • The repetitive jingles in the advertisement began to grate on everyone who saw it continuously.

Synonyms

to annoy
vsto grate
246 1.0

Make someone slightly angry or bothered by small repeated actions

leads to gradual resentment over time rather than mainly mild annoyance
to frustrate
vsto grate
137 3.0

Make someone feel annoyed because they cannot do something

causes irritation through slow resentment rather than frustration at failure
to irritate
vsto grate
78 2.9

Make someone feel annoyed or impatient, often by repeated small actions

builds a slower, more resentful irritation rather than immediate annoyance
to rile
vsto grate
63 6.9

Make someone annoyed, often by small things

creates longer term resentment or irritation rather than quick annoyance
to aggravate
vsto grate
43 4.2

Annoy someone and make them angrier

tends toward slow, nagging resentment rather than sharp exasperation
to displease
vsto grate
28 4.7

To make someone feel annoyed or unhappy

produces longer lasting resentment rather than simple dissatisfaction
to get under one's skin
vsto grate
  • Informal
25 7.2

To annoy someone again and again so they feel bothered

does similar ongoing irritation but with less personal penetration
to gnaw
vsto grate
18 4.9

Gradually make someone feel worried or less confident

is about causing irritation or resentment rather than general erosion
to chafe
vsto grate
10 6.8

To feel annoyed by rules or repeated problems

causes long-term resentful irritation rather than current rubbing discomfort
to rankle
vsto grate
10 8.0

To continue to make someone feel angry or hurt

causes ongoing irritation that may be less deeply bitter
to gall
vsto grate
8 7.1

To annoy someone deeply

creates irritation over time but may be less intensely provoking
to get on someone's nerves
vsto grate
  • Informal
7 4.9

To bother someone again and again until they feel angry

is similar but often implies a steady build toward resentment
to exasperate
vsto grate
7 5.9

Make someone very annoyed by doing the same thing again and again

creates a slow, resentful irritation rather than sudden extreme anger
to gnaw at
vsto grate
7 6.1

To make someone feel worried or less confident for a long time

focuses specifically on causing ongoing annoyance or resentment
to embitter
vsto grate
5 6.8

To make someone feel hurt and angry for a long time

creates irritation or resentment over time but less deep bitterness
to stick in one's craw
vsto grate
  • Informal
3 9.9

To feel angry or bitter about something unfair that you cannot forget

creates persistent irritation but not necessarily a hard refusal to accept
to peeve
vsto grate
2 6.8

To make someone feel annoyed

builds a stronger, more general resentment rather than a minor grievance
to pique
vsto grate
2 8.2

To offend someone and make them feel annoyed or hurt

works over time to irritate or make someone resentful rather than single insult
to eat into
vsto grate
2 6.8

To make someone feel more and more upset or angry inside

rouses irritation over time rather than actively eroding feelings
to disgruntle
vsto grate
1 8.0

To make someone feel unhappy or annoyed

creates simmering resentment over time rather than temporary bad mood
to envenom
vsto grate
9.9

To make a person or group feel bitter and angry

produces ongoing irritation that may not become deep bitterness
to acerbate
vsto grate
9.9

To make someone feel more bitter and angry about something

causes irritation over time rather than specifically increasing bitterness

Antonyms

216 1.0

To make someone happy or satisfied

How Irritating

to enrage
68 3.7
to grate
  • Informal
9 6.7
to annoy
246 1.0
to bother
1.0

Surface Forms

grate infinitive
grated past
grated past participle
grating present participle
grates third person singular

Etymology

The 'annoy' sense of grate comes from the idea of a rough scraping feeling or sound that keeps hitting you, like something that rubs at your nerves. So when something 'grates' on you it slowly irritates or angers you.