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to bother

to bother

1.0
To annoy or disturb someone
  • verb
  • /ˈbɑːðər/
translation icon : molestar
  • Does it bother you, what he said?
  • bother people
  • really bother someone
  • bothered by symptoms

OK, It's going to bother you, but it's a fact.

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Examples

  • I know that bothers you.

  • During the last month, have you often been bothered by feeling down, depressed, or hopeless?

    Academic text (2015)
  • OK, That is going to bother some people.

  • I didn't mean to bother you.

  • Then he wouldn't bother you anymore.

  • During the last month, have you often been bothered by having little interest or pleasure in doing things?

    Academic text (2015)
  • During the past month, have you often been bothered by feeling down, depressed, or hopeless?

    Academic text (2011)
  • I didn't want to bother you as you're so busy.

  • He just keeps bothering me everywhere I go!

  • The loud music from next door really bothered me while I was trying to study.

Synonyms

to upset
vsto bother
362 1.0

Make someone feel sad or worried

is narrower by also including mild irritation or brief annoyance
to annoy
vsto bother
246 1.0

Make someone slightly angry or bothered by small repeated actions

is broader, covering worry, upset, or mild anger
to get to
vsto bother
  • Informal
215 6.3

Annoy or upset someone gradually

is more general, not only small repeated annoyances
to trouble
vsto bother
174 1.8

To cause someone worry or bother

is more focused on mild annoyances and small worries
to disturb
vsto bother
153 2.5

Make someone feel deeply worried or upset

is broader and can be lighter or less deep emotionally
to frustrate
vsto bother
137 3.0

Make someone feel annoyed because they cannot do something

is not limited to blocked goals, covering many annoyances
to bug
vsto bother
  • Informal
85 3.7

To annoy someone by bothering them repeatedly

is similar but covers single or occasional annoyances too
to irritate
vsto bother
78 2.9

Make someone feel annoyed or impatient, often by repeated small actions

is more general and also covers worry or upset
to fret
vsto bother
67 4.2

Make someone feel worried or annoyed about small things

is broader, also including pure irritation without worry
to rile
vsto bother
63 6.9

Make someone annoyed, often by small things

covers irritation but also worry and general disturbance
to hassle
vsto bother
47 4.4

To bother someone again and again

is more general, also including single acts that upset or worry
to aggravate
vsto bother
43 4.2

Annoy someone and make them angrier

means annoy in many ways, not only by intensifying feelings
to put out
vsto bother
43 5.8

Cause someone trouble by making things difficult for them

is broader, also covering emotional upset and worry
to pester
vsto bother
34 3.2

To annoy someone by asking for things again and again

can be any annoyance, not only ongoing interruptions
to get at
vsto bother
  • Informal
25 7.1

To annoy someone with small repeated actions

is wider, including causing worry or emotional upset
to vex
vsto bother
11 7.0

To annoy someone by small, repeated actions

is broader, including single or nonrepeated worries
to exasperate
vsto bother
7 5.9

Make someone very annoyed by doing the same thing again and again

is milder and covers worry or simple disturbance
to nag
vsto bother
5 3.9

To feel a small, constant worry that bothers you

is more general and can include simple irritation without worry
to bedevil
vsto bother
2 8.2

Cause ongoing trouble and confusion for people or things

can be occasional or brief, not always continuous trouble
to nettle
vsto bother
2 6.8

To annoy or upset someone in a way that feels sharp

is more general and can be less sharp or physical
to niggle
vsto bother
  • UK
1 7.6

To keep someone feeling slightly worried or annoyed

covers both small persistent and single more direct annoyances
pestering
vsto bother
3.2

A person who annoys another person by asking again and again

is the general idea which also covers brief annoyances

Antonyms

216 1.0

To make someone happy or satisfied

Idioms

A small problem that causes worry and needs help

Phrasal Verbs

449 2.0

To disturb or interrupt someone and make them feel annoyed

Compounds

2 4.8

A small problem that causes some trouble

How Annoying

to torment
  • NSFW
107 7.2
to harass
302 4.0
to pester
34 3.2
to bother
1.0
to irk
25 6.3
to annoy
246 1.0

Surface Forms

bother infinitive
bothered past
bothered past participle
bothering present participle
bothers third person singular

Etymology

Bother likely comes from an old Irish word bodhar meaning 'dull' or 'deaf', or from old words for 'disturb', which gives the sense of making someone uneasy. That's why to bother someone is to 'annoy', 'worry', or 'disturb' them.