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to exasperate

to exasperate

2 5.9
Make someone very annoyed by doing the same thing again and again
  • verb
  • /ɪɡˈzæspəˌreɪt/
: exasperar
  • Elaine sort of envied her innocence while also being exasperated by it.

Examples

  • The fiery young William Roper, who yearns to battle evil, is exasperated by Sir Thomas More's devotion to the law.

    Academic text (1997)
  • To know him is to be exasperated by him.

  • "Can I cut the deck?" I liked to do that, which exasperated my mother.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • "Will you please describe the man for me?" Exasperated, I repeated what I'd told him two days earlier.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • Ephesians 6:4 says, "Fathers, do not exasperate your children. Instead, bring them up in the training and the instruction of the Lord."

  • Within these classrooms, teachers were often exasperated by a lack of attention and misbehavior among the students.

    Academic text (2014)
  • "Nonsense!" Aria tried to hand the knife back, exasperated by the impertinent girl's theatrics.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • The constant interruptions during the meeting exasperated everyone present.

  • Her habit of arriving late to class exasperates the teacher every day.

  • The child's refusal to follow simple instructions often exasperates his parents.

Synonyms

to bother
vsto exasperate
∞ 1.0

To annoy or disturb someone

is specifically stronger, making someone very annoyed through repetition
to bug
vsto exasperate
  • Informal
229 3.7

To annoy someone by bothering them repeatedly

is stronger and more upsetting, not just a persistent nuisance
to annoy
vsto exasperate
144 1.0

Make someone slightly angry or bothered by small repeated actions

creates a stronger, more upsetting reaction than slight irritation
to get on someone's nerves
vsto exasperate
  • Informal
60 4.9

To bother someone again and again until they feel angry

pushes annoyance to a higher, more upsetting level through repetition
to irritate
vsto exasperate
57 2.9

Make someone feel annoyed or impatient, often by repeated small actions

is harsher in effect, producing deeper upset instead of mild impatience
to drive someone crazy
vsto exasperate
  • Informal
46 3.2

Make someone very annoyed or upset

is very annoying but usually caused by repeated small actions
to pester
vsto exasperate
32 3.2

To annoy someone by asking for things again and again

builds greater anger or upset beyond mere repeated pestering
to rile
vsto exasperate
22 6.9

Make someone annoyed, often by small things

causes more intense annoyance and stronger emotional upset by repetition
to aggravate
vsto exasperate
15 4.2

Annoy someone and make them angrier

is similarly intense but emphasizes repeated provoking actions
to displease
vsto exasperate
13 4.7

To make someone feel annoyed or unhappy

produces a much stronger upset, not just mild dissatisfaction
to vex
vsto exasperate
13 7.0

To annoy someone by small, repeated actions

causes a higher level of upset and stronger irritation overall
to grate
vsto exasperate
  • Informal
9 6.7

Annoy someone more and more over time

triggers a more intense upset often through repeated provoking acts
to peeve
vsto exasperate
1 6.8

To make someone feel annoyed

is more likely to cause deep upset rather than mere resentment
to get under one's skin
vsto exasperate
  • Informal
1 7.2

To annoy someone again and again so they feel bothered

creates very strong annoyance often from repeated deliberate provocation

Antonyms

680 1.0

Not showing strong feelings and being very still

75 3.4

To make someone feel calmer or reduce their pain

How Annoyed

to enrage
27 3.7
to exasperate
2 5.9
to annoy
144 1.0
to bother
∞ 1.0

Surface Forms

exasperate infinitive
exasperated past participle
exasperating present participle
exasperates third person singular

Morphology

exasperate = ex + asper + ate

Although built from Latin elements (ex- + asper + -ate), the constituent 'asper' is not a recognizable modern English base and the meaning 'make very annoyed' is not transparently derived for average learners.

Etymology

Exasperate comes from the Latin parts ex- ('completely') and asper ('rough'), the same root as the English word asperity ('roughness'). So to exasperate someone is to make their feelings 'rough' or very annoyed, often by doing the same thing again and again.