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to bother me

to bother me

449 2.0
To disturb or interrupt someone and make them feel annoyed
  • phrasal verb
  • /ˈbɑːðər mi/
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  • I wish you wouldn't bother me with your constant questions during the movie.
  • really bothers me
  • things bother me
  • bother me so

And that always kind of bothers me a little bit.

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Examples

  • And that always kind of bothers me a little bit.

  • Bob, I'm driving away now and I don't want you to bother me again.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • We talk, and you do nothing but bother me.

  • Some were a bit crowded, but that did not bother me, so I accepted it.

    Academic text (2001)
  • Now this really bothers me because this happens to me.

  • so why are you bothering me?

  • It's not what you say that bothers me... it's the way you say it...

    Academic text (1992)
  • It's just the little things that bother me, and I've never heard of that.

  • And then the second reason this bothers me is because it doesn't make sense.

  • Something really bothers me and I can't tell what it is.

Synonyms

to bother
vsto bother me
1.0

To annoy or disturb someone

is the same idea but emphasizes breaking attention often briefly
to mess
vsto bother me
  • Informal
368 6.0

To bother someone to make them angry or upset

is broader and may simply mean a minor interruption without provocation
to harass
vsto bother me
302 4.0

Annoy someone again and again to make them feel worried or uncomfortable

is milder, often meaning short annoyance or a small interruption
to annoy
vsto bother me
246 1.0

Make someone slightly angry or bothered by small repeated actions

focuses more on breaking focus or causing short interruptions
to disturb
vsto bother me
153 2.5

Make someone feel deeply worried or upset

is lighter, typically meaning a small interruption or momentary upset
to bug
vsto bother me
  • Informal
85 3.7

To annoy someone by bothering them repeatedly

is similar but stresses interruption or brief disturbance rather than persistence
to irritate
vsto bother me
78 2.9

Make someone feel annoyed or impatient, often by repeated small actions

leans more toward interrupting or distracting someone rather than only angering them
to rile
vsto bother me
63 6.9

Make someone annoyed, often by small things

tends to cover interruption or distraction rather than sudden provocation
to hassle
vsto bother me
47 4.4

To bother someone again and again

is more about single interruptions or distractions rather than persistent trouble
to pester
vsto bother me
34 3.2

To annoy someone by asking for things again and again

matches repeated interruption but is broader, covering any small disturbance
to get on someone's nerves
vsto bother me
  • Informal
7 4.9

To bother someone again and again until they feel angry

can mean a one-off interruption as well as ongoing irritation
to perturb
vsto bother me
7 7.0

To make someone feel worried or uneasy

is less intense, usually only making someone briefly upset or distracted
to niggle
vsto bother me
  • UK
1 7.6

To keep someone feeling slightly worried or annoyed

more often means an immediate interruption or short-lived distraction
to nudzh
vsto bother me
  • Informal
9.9

To keep asking or complaining to make someone do something

is broader, covering simple interruption not only nagging behavior
to devil
vsto bother me
  • UK
8.3

To annoy someone again and again with small problems

is more general and may include a single interruption or brief bother
to discommode
vsto bother me
  • Archaic
9.9

To cause someone a little trouble or discomfort

often causes clearer interruption or attention breaking rather than mere inconvenience
to commove
vsto bother me
  • Archaic
9.9

To disturb people or things

is narrower, mainly about interrupting attention or causing small distractions

Antonyms

1.0

Choose not to pay attention to someone or something

2.3

To avoid touching and disturbing a person, animal or object

How Disturbing

to upset
362 1.0
to disturb
183 2.1
to bother me
449 2.0
to distract
513 2.1
to interrupt
909 2.5

Surface Forms

bother me infinitive
bothered me past participle
bothering me present participle
bothers me third person singular

Morphology

bother + me

The meaning 'to disturb or annoy someone' is directly and transparently derived from the verb 'bother' (to cause annoyance) combined with the pronoun 'me' as the affected person, following a standard verb + object composition. This pattern is cross-linguistically common and uses simple, high-frequency words, so a B1 learner who knows the constituents will readily infer the MWE's meaning.

Etymology

Bother me shows a simple image: bother is like someone poking, interrupting, or making trouble and me is the person who is stopped or upset. That's why it means 'to disturb or annoy'.