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to upset

to upset

362 1.0
Make someone feel sad or worried
  • verb
  • /ʌpˈsɛt/
translation icon : preocupar
  • We didn't mean to upset you.
  • behavior that upset people
  • upset clients
  • upset us most

So he did something to Sean that upset him and.

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Examples

  • Uh, any mention of money would just upset him.

  • His wife stared at the ground, upset by the words of her husband.

    Academic text (1995)
  • And I got so upset, like, why would you do that?

  • If you get upset, she gets upset.

  • And you know, I am very sorry that what I said in there upset you.

  • I didn't mean to upset you.

  • Look, I'm not trying to upset you, but you really shouldn't be living alone.

  • I don't get upset about things I can't change.

  • The only celebrity death that upset me was Kurt Cobain.

  • I didn't mean to upset you by bringing up that topic.

Synonyms

to offend
vsto upset
524 2.8

Cause a person to feel hurt, upset and angry because of your words or actions

is broader, including general unhappiness or worry beyond being insulted
to trouble
vsto upset
174 1.8

To cause someone worry or bother

is similar but highlights general unhappiness and emotional disturbance rather than inconvenience
to drive someone crazy
vsto upset
  • Informal
158 3.2

Make someone very annoyed or upset

is more general and usually less intense, covering mild to moderate unhappiness or worry
to disturb
vsto upset
153 2.5

Make someone feel deeply worried or upset

is more general, causing unhappiness, worry, or mild emotional discomfort
to sadden
vsto upset
76 2.3

To make someone feel sad

includes sadness but also adds worry and broader emotional disturbance
to dismay
vsto upset
37 4.4

Make someone feel shocked or worried by something unexpected

is more about general unhappiness than sudden shock or strong disappointment
to displease
vsto upset
28 4.7

To make someone feel annoyed or unhappy

is wider, covering unhappiness and worry rather than mild annoyance
to dishearten
vsto upset
8 5.3

To make someone lose hope or confidence

is about general unhappiness or worry rather than loss of hope or confidence
to disconcert
vsto upset
7 7.1

To make someone feel uncomfortable or embarrassed

is broader, covering general unhappiness and worry beyond social embarrassment
to unsettle
vsto upset
7 4.9

To make someone feel worried or uneasy

covers unhappiness and worry as well as anxiety or insecurity
to discontent
vsto upset
3 5.0

To make someone not satisfied with their situation

is more general and includes worry, not only situational dissatisfaction
to disquiet
vsto upset
1 7.3

To make someone feel worried or uneasy

is about general unhappiness, not only worry or unease
to discompose
vsto upset
1 9.1

To make someone feel nervous

expresses general unhappiness or worry rather than a quick loss of composure
to discomfit
vsto upset
  • Formal
1 8.4

To make someone feel uncomfortable, confused, or embarrassed

focuses on general unhappiness or worry rather than mere confusion or embarrassment
to aggrieve
vsto upset
  • Literature
1 8.9

To cause someone pain or deep sadness

is broader, covering ordinary unhappiness and worry rather than deep grieving
to disgruntle
vsto upset
1 8.0

To make someone feel unhappy or annoyed

is wider, covering worry and emotional disturbance beyond a mere bad mood
to unfix
vsto upset
9.1

Make someone feel upset and unable to think clearly

covers general unhappiness or worry rather than extreme loss of composure
to untune
vsto upset
  • Archaic
8.9

To make someone lose their calm and feel upset

is broader, covering unhappiness and worry as well as composure loss
to chagrin
vsto upset
8.0

To make someone feel embarrassed or disappointed

focuses on general unhappiness and worry rather than shame or disappointment after failure

Antonyms

172 1.0

To make someone feel less upset or in pain

40 3.9

To comfort someone who feels sad or disappointed

Compounds

A mild pain or feeling of sickness in the stomach

A mild stomach pain that often makes you feel sick or causes heartburn

7.9

The lowest price a seller will accept at an auction

How Upset

to traumatize
87 6.9
to distress
32 4.1
to disturb
153 2.5
to upset
362 1.0
to unsettle
7 4.9
to bother
1.0

Surface Forms

upset infinitive
upset past
upset past participle
upsetting present participle
upsets third person singular

Morphology

upset = set (opaque) = up + set

The verb is historically built from 'up' and 'set', but the emotional meaning comes by semantic extension from 'disturb' and is not directly predictable from the parts. [Postprocessing: moved 'up' from base_words to prefix]

Etymology

Upset comes from the parts up and set, with set meaning 'place' and up meaning 'up'; think of turning a placed thing over. So to upset someone is to 'turn over' their feelings and make them unhappy.