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to dismay

to dismay

37 4.4
Make someone feel shocked or worried by something unexpected
  • verb
  • /dɪsˈmeɪ/
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  • "In a few days?" She felt dismayed at the idea of another delay.
  • dismay many people
  • be dismayed to learn
  • dismay officials

Examples

  • Not surprisingly, this action, or inaction, shocked and dismayed members of the public health community.

    Academic text (2005)
  • Teachers were initially dismayed when faced with finding a coaching partner.

    Academic text (2012)
  • We recognize that this argument will dismay many and comfort others.

    Academic text (1990)
  • Many students expressed shock at his treatment and were dismayed to read the account.

    Academic text (2004)
  • In a revealing statement, Nehru said how dismayed he was as he watched what was happening in the country.

    Academic text (1997)
  • Gathered in Liberty Hall, the rebel leaders are dismayed by MacNeill's order.

  • Even some legislators who wanted to change the flag were dismayed at the governor's tactics.

    Academic text (2008)
  • The new policy dismayed U.S. officials, who saw Correa's declaration as blatantly irresponsible.

    Academic text (2012)
  • But Indian policymakers have been deeply dismayed by Washington's reluctance to counter Pakistan's designs in Afghanistan.

    Academic text (2011)
  • The parents were dismayed to learn that their child had been bullied at school.

Synonyms

to upset
vsto dismay
362 1.0

Make someone feel sad or worried

includes the same feelings but often with sudden shock as well as worry
to shock
vsto dismay
202 2.1

To cause someone to feel sudden surprise and distress

covers that sudden surprise plus ongoing worry and disappointment
to alarm
vsto dismay
133 1.9

To make someone feel afraid or worried about possible danger

overlaps on worry but is less about fear of danger
to sadden
vsto dismay
76 2.3

To make someone feel sad

is broader, combining sadness with worry, shock, and disappointment
to demoralize
vsto dismay
33 6.1

To make someone lose confidence or hope

focuses more on sudden distress and worried disappointment instead of morale
to depress
vsto dismay
32 4.1

To make someone feel sad and lose hope

may include sadness but also the element of shocked worry or disappointment
to get down
vsto dismay
  • Informal
22 4.1

To make someone feel sad or less hopeful

is broader, adding shocked worry and strong disappointment
to dishearten
vsto dismay
8 5.3

To make someone lose hope or confidence

is less about morale loss and more about shock and worry
to disconcert
vsto dismay
7 7.1

To make someone feel uncomfortable or embarrassed

is broader, including worry, shock, and clear disappointment
to deject
vsto dismay
4 6.5

To make someone feel sad or less hopeful

also covers worry and sudden shock, not only low mood
to discomfort
vsto dismay
1 4.3

To make someone feel uneasy or anxious

adds stronger emotional surprise and disappointment beyond mild unease
to cast down
vsto dismay
1 6.3

To make someone feel sad or discouraged

includes discouragement but adds elements of shock and anxious worry
to disquiet
vsto dismay
1 7.3

To make someone feel worried or uneasy

adds an element of sudden shock or deep disappointment as well
to discompose
vsto dismay
1 9.1

To make someone feel nervous

covers similar unease but also includes clear disappointment and shock
to consternate
vsto dismay
  • Archaic
1 9.9

To make someone feel sudden shock and worry

is similar but can also mean lasting worry and disappointment
to aggrieve
vsto dismay
  • Literature
1 8.9

To cause someone pain or deep sadness

is similar emotionally but often includes surprise and worry as well
to dispirit
vsto dismay
1 7.6

To make someone lose hope or confidence

is similar but emphasizes shocked worry and emotional distress more
to chagrin
vsto dismay
8.0

To make someone feel embarrassed or disappointed

focuses less on shame and more on shock, worry, and distress

Antonyms

172 1.0

To make someone feel less upset or in pain

79 2.1

To please someone very much

How Distressing

to devastate
221 4.9
to dismay
37 4.4
to alarm
133 1.9
to shock
202 2.1
to startle
131 3.7

Surface Forms

dismay infinitive
dismaying present participle
dismays third person singular
dismayed past
dismayed past participle

Etymology

To dismay someone is to 'take away their may' — in other words to make them lose courage or hope, which is why the verb means to shock, worry, or leave someone upset.