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to offend

to offend

283 2.8
Cause a person to feel hurt, upset and angry because of your words or actions
  • verb
  • /əˈfɛnd/
: ofender
  • Look, I'm sorry if I offended you a while ago.
  • offend people
  • try not to offend
  • avoid offending

And I think, I think it offends, offends him morally.

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Examples

  • I'm sorry if I offended you.

  • Some jokes can easily offend people if they touch on sensitive topics.

  • So a big company cannot afford to offend too many people.

  • I understand the trick is to offend no one.

  • That sort of mainstream tries not to offend anyone.

  • I never realised how many people I could offend by applying foundation.

  • Something that offends you may not offend me.

  • So I don't want to offend you, but bit of common sense is necessary.

  • I'm sorry if I offended you.

  • Ladies and gentlemen, before we continue, I'd like to apologize to anyone who may have been upset or offended by what you saw before the break.

Synonyms

to hurt
vsto offend
∞ 1.0

Make someone suffer physical or emotional pain

is usually milder, causing upset or annoyance rather than deep harm
to piss off
vsto offend
  • Offensive
354 9.9

To make someone very angry

is a more neutral way to cause hurt, upset, or annoyance
to upset
vsto offend
273 1.0

Make someone feel sad or worried

often means a simpler hurt or annoyance rather than deep distress
to shock
vsto offend
208 2.1

To cause someone to feel sudden surprise and distress

is about causing emotional hurt or annoyance rather than surprise
to annoy
vsto offend
144 1.0

Make someone slightly angry or bothered by small repeated actions

also covers causing hurt or upset beyond mere irritation
to provoke
vsto offend
87 3.6

Annoy someone again and again to make them react

may cause upset without the aim of provoking a response
to get on someone's nerves
vsto offend
  • Informal
60 4.9

To bother someone again and again until they feel angry

can happen from a single act and does not need persistence
to irritate
vsto offend
57 2.9

Make someone feel annoyed or impatient, often by repeated small actions

includes that but also causing emotional hurt or deeper upset
to drive someone crazy
vsto offend
  • Informal
46 3.2

Make someone very annoyed or upset

covers both intense and mild causes of emotional hurt or anger
to get under someone's skin
vsto offend
  • Informal
38 7.4

To annoy someone a lot by small things another person does

can be less lasting, causing momentary upset or annoyance
to sicken
vsto offend
32 4.3

Make someone feel disgusted or shocked by bad actions

is broader, including milder hurt, upset, or simple annoyance
to antagonize
vsto offend
  • US
28 7.6

To make someone angry or unfriendly

can cause hurt or upset without making ongoing hostility
to bruise
vsto offend
  • Informal
28 4.2

To hurt someone's feelings or pride

is wider, causing hurt or annoyance in many ways not only pride
to rile
vsto offend
22 6.9

Make someone annoyed, often by small things

is wider, including causing emotional hurt or offence as well
to outrage
vsto offend
13 3.9

Make people feel very angry and shocked

can instead mean milder upset or private hurt without intensity
to displease
vsto offend
13 4.7

To make someone feel annoyed or unhappy

can be stronger, producing real hurt or emotional upset
to scandalize
vsto offend
11 7.0

To shock or offend people by behaving in a way many think is wrong

is not limited to moral shock and covers ordinary insults
to wound
vsto offend
10 5.7

To hurt a person's feelings deeply

is less severe, covering brief hurt or simple annoyance
to spite
vsto offend
9 4.9

To deliberately hurt or annoy someone to upset them

can happen unintentionally or without malice
to appall
vsto offend
6 5.5

To make someone feel shocked and very upset by something cruel or wrong

is milder, focused on hurt, upset, or annoyance rather than horror
to exasperate
vsto offend
2 5.9

Make someone very annoyed by doing the same thing again and again

can also describe milder, one off causes of hurt or annoyance
to pique
vsto offend
2 8.2

To offend someone and make them feel annoyed or hurt

is broader, covering hurt, upset, or annoyance beyond resentment
to injure
vsto offend
2 2.5

Hurt someone's feelings by saying or doing something

is broader, including milder upset or casual annoyance
to peeve
vsto offend
1 6.8

To make someone feel annoyed

is a broader cause of hurt, upset, or general annoyance
to miff
vsto offend
1 8.0

To make someone feel slightly annoyed

is more general and can cause stronger upset or annoyance

Antonyms

372 1.0

To make someone happy or satisfied

How Offensive

to appall
6 5.5
to outrage
13 3.9
to insult
  • Offensive
420 2.1
to offend
283 2.8
to irritate
57 2.9
to bother
∞ 1.0

Surface Forms

offend infinitive
offended past
offended past participle
offending present participle
offends third person singular

Etymology

Offend comes from Latin parts ob- 'against' and fendere 'to strike', and the same 'fend' root appears in defend. So to offend someone is like 'striking' them with words or actions, which is why it means to hurt or upset a person.