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to smother

to smother

35 6.0
To stop a feeling or sound from being shown
  • verb
  • /ˈsmʌðər/
: contener
  • His anger was so intense that the words seemed to smother in his throat.

Examples

  • Any noise the horse made down here was smothered by the roar of the water.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • And right now those mistakes are beginning to pile up on you and in a little while they're gonna smother you.

  • "Joey! Joey!" she said, trying to smother me in a hug.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • Maybe, but every time I look up there, I get a feeling I'm being smothered.

  • The night seemed to press down on him, smothering, the air heavy and oppressive.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • Fear was like a blanket; it smothered everything else, smoothing out the things I thought about.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • Margaret tried to sleep, but she heard scuffling feet and smothered giggles at the foot of her bed.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • Modern society has smothered our true selves, and driven us from biological destiny.

  • The buzzing of the intercom jolted Isabelle back from the smothering pangs of hopeless regret.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • She tried to smother her laughter during the serious meeting.

Synonyms

to hold back
vsto smother
86 4.2

Keep yourself from showing feelings or telling others

is about preventing notice rather than just avoiding disclosure
to stifle
vsto smother
71 5.3

To hold back a feeling or reaction so it does not show

focuses on hiding or preventing expression rather than stopping growth
to hold in
vsto smother
65 4.5

To stop yourself from showing strong feelings

emphasizes making the expression unnoticed rather than merely contained
to suppress
vsto smother
48 5.8

To hold back feelings or reactions

stops expression so it is not noticed rather than only held back
to repress
vsto smother
42 6.6

Keep strong feelings or memories from coming into the mind

acts more like hiding expression immediately rather than long term exclusion
to bottle up
vsto smother
41 5.6

To keep strong feelings inside instead of telling others

is more about hiding so others do not notice than only withholding
to dampen
vsto smother
41 4.4

Make something less strong or noticeable, for example sound and feeling

acts to stop being noticed entirely rather than just lowering intensity
to strangle
vsto smother
28 6.7

To limit growth or activity so it cannot continue

targets emotions or sounds being hidden rather than broader growth control
to restrain
vsto smother
26 4.6

Keep strong feelings under control so you do not act on them

is more specific to making expression go unseen rather than general control
to muffle
vsto smother
19 5.8

To make a sound or feeling quieter so it is less noticeable

focuses on making expression unnoticed rather than only reducing loudness
to squelch
vsto smother
13 7.8

Completely stop protests or criticism

is about stopping expression quietly rather than violently ending it
to keep back
vsto smother
12 5.1

Stop yourself from showing an emotion like tears or laughter

focuses on stopping it being noticed rather than just holding it back
to tamp down
vsto smother
11 5.7

Reduce the strength of feelings or public anger

is about preventing visible expression rather than merely calming intensity
to choke back
vsto smother
5 7.0

Stop yourself from showing a feeling when you want to cry

is the controlled hiding that makes the emotion remain unnoticed
to quench
vsto smother
3 6.1

To stop a feeling or action completely

focuses on keeping something unnoticed rather than destroying it fully
to choke down
vsto smother
2 7.7

To stop yourself from showing strong feelings like sadness or anger

is about preventing notice rather than the effort involved in resisting
to sheathe emotions
vsto smother
  • Informal
7.9

To hide your feelings so others cannot see them

is about preventing any notice rather than only avoiding display

Antonyms

∞ 2.3

To show ideas and feelings by words or actions

60 4.0

An activity that lets you show strong feelings or creative energy

Idioms

1 7.0

To give someone so much care and affection that they feel overwhelmed

7.5

To stop yourself from showing angry feelings

How Suppressed

to smother
35 6.0
to repress
42 6.6
to stifle
71 5.3
to suppress
48 5.8
to restrain
26 4.6
to hold back
86 4.2

Surface Forms

smother infinitive
smothered past
smothered past participle
smothering present participle
smothers third person singular

Etymology

A helpful way to remember smother is to think of covering a feeling so it cannot 'breathe' or show itself. So to smother an emotion is to hold it back or stop it from coming out.