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to choke back

to choke back

4 7.0
Stop yourself from showing a feeling when you want to cry
  • phrasal verb
  • /tʃoʊk bæk/
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  • Another worried face, another student choking back tears.
  • choking back tears
  • choked back a sob
  • choking back laughter

Examples

  • As she listened to the sad news, she had to choke back her tears.

  • I managed to choke back a sob that struggled to burst forth.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • "I feel like I could have done more," he said, choking back tears.

    Blog text (23)
  • I choked back a lump in my throat, but it was no use.

    Academic text (1996)
  • And he was choking back soft, soft sobs.

  • "Do you know why he would do that, Doctor?" Niemann tried to choke back tears.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • "Every room is the wrong room," Simon says, choking back a sob.

    Blog text (21)
  • Mark retreated to his bedroom, where he sprawled on his bed and for a moment choked back tears.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • The prayers, the silence, everyone veiled behind their sunglasses, choking back tears.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • Christina, of the island, strong as granite, choked back sobs.

    Fiction book (1990)

Synonyms

to hold back
vsto choke back
108 4.2

Keep yourself from showing feelings or telling others

is the same hiding but stresses doing so with difficulty
to choke
vsto choke back
97 4.9

To find it hard to speak because you feel strong emotion

emphasizes doing this while struggling or feeling it is hard
to suppress
vsto choke back
88 5.8

To hold back feelings or reactions

focuses on the same holding back but with noticeable struggle
to repress
vsto choke back
75 6.6

Keep strong feelings or memories from coming into the mind

is similar but describes an immediate, effortful keeping in the moment
to restrain
vsto choke back
72 4.6

Keep strong feelings under control so you do not act on them

is similar but stresses doing so with real difficulty
to hold in
vsto choke back
65 4.5

To stop yourself from showing strong feelings

involves more effort and difficulty to keep the feeling inside
to stifle
vsto choke back
49 5.3

To hold back a feeling or reaction so it does not show

is the same restraint but carried out with personal effort and strain
to smother
vsto choke back
39 6.0

To stop a feeling or sound from being shown

achieves hiding but requires visible effort or inner struggle
to strangle
vsto choke back
33 6.7

To limit growth or activity so it cannot continue

applies to emotions too but the key focuses on a difficult personal hold
to bottle up
vsto choke back
24 5.6

To keep strong feelings inside instead of telling others

is more about a single hard effort to stop an immediate reaction
to swallow
vsto choke back
  • Informal
5 7.0

To take back words you said

is the same suppression but done with noticeable effort or pain
to keep back
vsto choke back
4 5.1

Stop yourself from showing an emotion like tears or laughter

is similar but highlights personal struggle in preventing the feeling
to choke down
vsto choke back
2 7.7

To stop yourself from showing strong feelings like sadness or anger

is the same action but done with notable difficulty or strain
to fight down
vsto choke back
1 7.0

To try hard to hold back a strong feeling

matches this struggle but usually stresses a single intense effort
to smother one's anger
vsto choke back
  • Informal
7.5

To stop yourself from showing angry feelings

also conceals anger but with extra difficulty implied in action
to hold back one's laughter
vsto choke back
3.7

To stop yourself from making a sound when something is funny

is broader and refers to holding in many emotions with difficulty

Antonyms

2.3

To show ideas and feelings by words or actions

1.8

To let someone or something go free from being held

How Suppressed

to stifle
49 5.3
to suppress
88 5.8
to choke back
4 7.0
to restrain
72 4.6
to hold back
108 4.2

Surface Forms

choke back infinitive
choked back past participle
choking back present participle
chokes back third person singular

Morphology

choke + back

The meaning 'to suppress or restrain an emotion' is directly derivable from combining 'choke' (to stifle) with the particle 'back', which commonly marks holding in or restraining in verb+particle constructions (compare 'hold back', 'hold in'). This is a regular compositional pattern in English, so a B1 learner who knows both constituents would very likely infer the MWE's meaning.

Etymology

Choke back comes from the image of someone who is choking and forces what is in their throat back down so they do not cough or cry out. So, choke back means to 'hold in' or 'suppress' a strong feeling like tears, anger, or a sob.