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to choke

to choke

97 4.9
To find it hard to speak because you feel strong emotion
  • verb
  • /tʃoʊk/
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  • When a man or a woman is too independent in a relationship, they will choke the life out of that relationship.
  • choked back tears
  • a choked voice

But once narcissists start getting into your life, they are like invasive weeds that choke out the good stuff in your garden.

Examples

  • She couldn't express her feelings about the situation and felt like she was going to choke on her frustration.

  • You are allowing the world to steal your attention, to choke your brain power with things that really don't matter.

  • But once narcissists start getting into your life, they are like invasive weeds that choke out the good stuff in your garden.

  • People's talents and worldviews can threaten the insecure and choke off honest discussion.

    Academic text (2009)
  • Gripping the bar in her mittens, she choked back a sob of fear.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • As the pressure mounted, he began to choke back his tears during the emotional speech.

  • In the middle of the presentation, he suddenly choked on his words and struggled to continue.

Synonyms

to hold back
vsto choke
108 4.2

Keep yourself from showing feelings or telling others

is focused more on internal feelings and creative expression
to suppress
vsto choke
88 5.8

To hold back feelings or reactions

may not imply deliberate action, covering broader restraint
to hold in
vsto choke
65 4.5

To stop yourself from showing strong feelings

covers suppression of broader creative or expressive acts too
to suffocate
vsto choke
53 5.7

To feel limited and unable to grow or express yourself

deals with active internal restraint of feelings or expression
to stifle
vsto choke
49 5.3

To hold back a feeling or reaction so it does not show

focuses more on inner restraint of feelings and expression
to strangle
vsto choke
33 6.7

To limit growth or activity so it cannot continue

is more about holding back emotions or creativity rather than stopping growth
to bottle up
vsto choke
24 5.6

To keep strong feelings inside instead of telling others

can be less deliberate and include stifling creativity or expression
to quench
vsto choke
7 6.1

To stop a feeling or action completely

often means restraint rather than total destruction of feeling
to choke off
vsto choke
6 6.4

To stop a supply by blocking its source or flow

is more about restraining inner feelings or creative expression
to swallow
vsto choke
  • Informal
5 7.0

To take back words you said

is broader and also covers creative or expressive suppression
to choke back
vsto choke
4 7.0

Stop yourself from showing a feeling when you want to cry

does the same without focusing on effort or struggle
to choke down
vsto choke
2 7.7

To stop yourself from showing strong feelings like sadness or anger

covers emotions and also broader creativity or expressive acts

Antonyms

2.3

To show ideas and feelings by words or actions

1.8

To let someone or something go free from being held

Idioms

To stop speaking because you feel nervous, embarrassed, or upset

9.9

To touch a man's penis to make him sexually excited

to choke a horse
  • Informal
9.8

A very large amount of food that is more than one person can eat

Phrasal Verbs

47 3.4

To have trouble breathing because food gets stuck in the throat

16 4.6

To feel so upset that you cannot speak

6 6.4

To stop a supply by blocking its source or flow

Stop yourself from showing a feeling when you want to cry

To stop yourself from showing strong feelings like sadness or anger

1 7.4

Say something with great difficulty because you feel upset or nervous

1 7.0

Perform badly because of nervousness in an important situation

1 5.8

To block a pipe or drain so water cannot pass through

To manage a short laugh when you feel surprised or shocked

5.4

Stop working or work badly when there is too much demand

Compounds

choke hold
  • NSFW
7 7.5

A tight arm around someone's neck from behind to stop them moving or make them pass out

automatic choke
  • Archaic
1 6.8

A device in a car engine that automatically reduces air so the engine starts easily when cold

Filled so tightly that there is no space left

choke coil
  • Specialized
7.7

A coil that lets direct current pass but reduces alternating current in a circuit

How Suppressed

to stifle
49 5.3
to suppress
88 5.8
to choke
97 4.9
to restrain
72 4.6
to hold back
108 4.2

Surface Forms

choke infinitive
choked past
choked past participle
choking present participle
chokes third person singular

Etymology

Choke for holding back feelings comes from the same physical idea of losing breath; when strong emotions 'choke' you they stop your voice and make it hard to speak.