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ungentle

ungentle

1 7.7
Harsh and unkind in the way someone acts
  • adjective
  • /ʌnˈdʒɛntəl/
translation icon : áspero
  • The ungentle treatment of the injured animal shocked all the witnesses.

Examples

  • His ungentle remarks during the meeting made everyone uncomfortable.

  • And yesternight, at supper, you suddenly arose, and walk'd about, musing and sighing, with your arms across, and when I ask'd you what the matter was, you stared upon me with ungentle looks.

  • Many of them are very, very ungentle, making me look like a real gentle cat.

    Blog text (18)
  • They spoke, for example, of ungentle gentlemen.

  • I talk about what holds us back: the ungentle voices in our heads, the secrets waiting to trip us up.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • Indeed, we're often the most discourteous and ungentle to those who are nearest and dearest to us: our spouses, our children, and our parents.

    Blog text (20)
  • What stern, ungentle hands... have lopped and hewed and made thy body bare of her two branches?

  • Her life arcs before her eyes like a joke on rainbows, a wobbly trail of fizzled careers, changes of address, ungentle men.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • She was often criticized for her ungentle behavior towards her coworkers.

Synonyms

mean
vsungentle
699 2.2

Unkind and cruel toward other people

is about general harsh or rough behaviour rather than intentional desire to hurt
unkind
vsungentle
44 1.0

Not friendly or caring to other people

is more about harsh or rough manner and action rather than simple coldness
unforgiving
vsungentle
35 5.8

Not willing to forgive someone and acting without mercy

is about general harshness in manner rather than unwillingness to pardon
unfriendly
vsungentle
22 1.9

Not kind or warm to other people

is about active harshness or rough action rather than mere coldness
abrasive
vsungentle
18 6.5

Showing little concern for other people's feelings

is focused on brusque directness rather than general lack of kindness
uncivil
vsungentle
9 6.0

Not polite and rude to other people

is harsher and rougher in manner or action rather than only rude speech
uncharitable
vsungentle
5 6.7

Not kind or generous and quick to judge others harshly

is general lack of kindness in manners or actions rather than only harsh judgment
ungracious
vsungentle
4 6.7

Rude and not polite or kind

is rougher or harsher in manner and action rather than only impoliteness
unsparing
vsungentle
2 7.9

Very harsh and not forgiving when criticizing or acting

is a general lack of kindness rather than focused ruthless treatment
unmerciful
vsungentle
2 7.1

Being very cruel and not kind to others

is broader harshness and lack of kindness rather than extreme cruelty
ungentlemanly
vsungentle
1 7.0

Rude or unfair behavior that shows little respect for others

is about broad harshness or lack of kindness rather than merely bad gentlemanly manners
unmannerly
vsungentle
1 6.3

Not polite and often rude to others

is focused on rudeness and social rules rather than overall harshness
ungallant
vsungentle
1 9.1

Not polite or kind to other people

is more general harshness in manner or action rather than only social discourtesy
unhandsome
vsungentle
  • Archaic
1 8.1

Not kind or fair in how someone treats others

is about roughness or lack of kindness in manner rather than unfair treatment specifically
unmannered
vsungentle
1 7.2

Not showing good manners toward others

is about general harshness or rough action rather than merely bad manners
unchivalrous
vsungentle
1 8.6

Not polite or kind to someone in a social situation

is about harsh or rough behaviour rather than absence of formal courtesy
untender
vsungentle
7.9

Not gentle or kind in manner and not soft in feel

focuses on harshness in manner or action rather than physical texture
ungentled
vsungentle
  • Archaic
9.8

Not used to people and hard to touch or train

is about harsh or rough behaviour rather than the process of becoming soft
unpitying
vsungentle
8.8

Not showing kindness or mercy when others suffer

is a broader lack of kindness rather than only absence of sympathy
meanspirited
vsungentle
  • Offensive
7.4

Unkind and petty in a way that hurts other people

is broader harshness or rough action rather than deliberately petty cruelty
noncharitable
vsungentle
6.7

Not showing kindness to other people

is more about rough or harsh manner rather than simply lacking generosity
uncordial
vsungentle
  • Archaic
8.9

Not friendly or warm in behavior

is harsher in manner or action rather than merely lacking warmth
untactful
vsungentle
7.2

Not careful about other people's feelings when you speak or act, making others feel bad

is about blunt or insensitive social behaviour rather than deliberate harshness
ungenteel
vsungentle
  • Archaic
9.9

Not polite and not showing good manners

is about lack of refinement or polish rather than deliberate harshness
ungentlemanlike
vsungentle
8.0

Not acting politely or respectfully toward others

is about rough or harsh action rather than failing to meet gentlemanly standards
ill-natured
vsungentle
7.4

Being easily annoyed and often unkind to others

is about rough or harsh manner and action rather than constant bad temperament

Antonyms

235 1.0

Kind and not strong in action, sound, or touch

How Gentle

tender
110 1.6
gentle
235 1.0
ungentle
1 7.7
harsh
289 2.8
cruel
522 2.7

Surface Forms

ungentle positive

Morphology

ungentle = gentle (transparent) = un + gentle

Productive negative 'un-' applied to the contemporary adjective 'gentle' yields the straightforward meaning 'not gentle' (harsh), which is predictable for learners.

Etymology

Ungentle comes from un- ('not') and gentle ('kind' or 'soft'), so it means 'not kind' or 'rough' in manner or action.