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tender

tender

110 1.6
Showing care and kindness in a gentle way
  • adjective
  • /ˈtɛndər/
translation icon : tierno
  • She gave him a tender smile that showed her affection.
  • tender loving care
  • tender feelings
  • tender-hearted

My parents were told to treat me with quote tender loving neglect.

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Examples

  • Be kind and tender hearted, OK?

  • And yet the service Edwina had at their church was tender, gentle, and human.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • Allow yourself to receive the tender touch from your hands.

  • But you start in the most tender place with those that you love.

  • And we have a very sweet, tender conversation.

  • My approach with parenting is to be very loving, very tender, a very good role model.

  • And may you be filled with tender compassion for yourself and kindness.

  • The content of the words does not account for the tender poignancy of the scene.

    Academic text (1991)
  • Ah, she said to herself with a tender smile, the brightness of the tail lingers on.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • His account of her dying from cancer in 1989 is variously tender, impressive, and savingly funny.

    Academic text (1996)

Synonyms

warm
vstender
280 1.0

Showing kindness and affection to others

is narrower, focusing on gentle kindness and emotional sensitivity
fond
vstender
223 1.0

Like someone or something in a warm way

leans more toward emotional sensitivity rather than simple liking
affectionate
vstender
56 2.2

To show warm, loving feelings to someone

is more about gentle emotional sensitivity than direct fondness
lovey
vstender
9 8.3

Showing tender affection in public or toward someone close

tends to be quieter and more about emotional sensitivity than display
dovey
vstender
  • Informal
5 8.3

Being very loving and sweet in a way that feels too romantic

is milder and less sentimental in its gentle emotional tone
tenderhearted
vstender
1 3.1

Kind and quick to feel sorry for people who are sad

focuses more on gentle feeling and affectionate sensitivity than pity
softhearted
vstender
1 3.4

A person who feels sorry for others and helps them

is more about gentle affection and sensitivity than reactive pity
gentle as a lamb
vstender
  • Informal
1 3.9

A person or animal who is very kind and not likely to hurt others

shares gentleness but emphasizes emotional sensitivity and affectionate feeling
lovesome
vstender
  • Archaic
9.9

Warm and gentle in a way that makes people want to care for it

is more about showing gentle inner feeling than inviting response

Antonyms

522 2.7

Willing to cause pain or suffering to others

403 3.8

Emotionally strong and not easily moved by feelings

Compounds

legal tender
  • Formal
4 4.0

Coins or paper money that the law says must be accepted for payment

2 2.5

Gentle, careful help and attention people give to someone or something that needs support

tender offer
  • Specialized
2 7.5

An offer to buy a company's shares at a higher price than the market

A painful area where the leg meets the lower belly, often from a strain or injury

How Tender

devoted
80 3.4
loving
454 1.0
affectionate
56 2.2
tender
110 1.6
gentle
235 1.0
kind
534 1.0

Surface Forms

tender positive
tenderer comparative
tenderest superlative

Etymology

Tender meaning gentle or kind comes from the Latin tener 'soft', which gives the image of a soft, caring person, and that's why 'tender' also means affectionate or gentle.