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to soften

to soften

50 3.1
Make something less strong or harsh
  • verb
  • /ˈsɔːfən/
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  • I advise you to soften the blow.
  • soften the blow
  • soften the tone
  • soften the image

So I'm just going to soften that a little bit.

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Examples

  • I just wish there were some way I could soften the news when I tell her.

  • But the government wanted to soften the blow by making pensions and health insurance affordable.

    Academic text (1996)
  • I'm still trying to soften the cold, hard truth of it.

  • It just helps soften the entire eyeshadow look.

  • He's long known that earth tones soften his image, making him seem more sympathetic and sincere.

    Academic text (2001)
  • But it's your job, Mr 10,000-dollar-a-week image-maker, to change all that... to soften the hard edges.

  • The educational directive in this updated agreement was softened and made unilateral.

    Academic text (2016)
  • She tried to soften the harsh criticism with a more gentle approach.

  • The warm sunlight helped to soften the edges of the cold, hard snow.

  • To make the difficult conversation easier, he aimed to soften his tone.

Synonyms

to ease
vsto soften
305 2.1

To make something less painful or difficult

focuses on reducing harshness or force rather than only relieving difficulty
to weaken
vsto soften
305 2.8

To make people and things less strong or effective

is narrower focusing on gentleness rather than mere loss of strength
to modify
vsto soften
66 3.5

Make something less strong or harsh

is more about making things gentler or softer in nature
to tone down
vsto soften
44 3.7

To make something less strong, for example a sound, color or feeling

is broader covering physical and emotional making gentler not only expression
to moderate
vsto soften
34 4.4

To make something less strong or intense

leans more toward gentle change in feeling or texture
to lessen
vsto soften
34 2.8

To make something smaller in amount or strength

is more about making things gentle and less forceful in tone
to mellow
vsto soften
31 4.0

To become or make something softer, gentler, and more pleasant

is close in meaning but applies to wider contexts beyond mood
to damp
vsto soften
26 4.8

To make a sound or feeling less strong

is more about making texture or harshness gentler rather than dulling energy
to lighten
vsto soften
26 2.5

To make a load or worry feel less heavy

focuses on easing harshness rather than only reducing load
to cushion
vsto soften
23 3.7

To make a blow or bad news less strong

is used for general gentling not only to reduce direct impacts
to soften up
vsto soften
  • Informal
19 3.9

To make someone more willing to agree or make something easier to bend

is broader applying to general gentling beyond persuasion or pliability
to dampen
vsto soften
16 4.4

Make something less strong or noticeable, for example sound and feeling

is more about making things gentle or less harsh in feeling
to attenuate
vsto soften
9 7.9

To make something weaker, like sound or light

is more about making things gentler emotionally or physically
to soften the blow
vsto soften
  • Informal
8 4.7

Make bad news or a loss easier to accept

applies generally to reducing harshness rather than only easing bad events
to mollify
vsto soften
8 7.2

To make someone less angry or upset

tends to be broader including physical or tonal gentling not only calming people
to buffer
vsto soften
5 4.6

To make a shock or harm have less effect

is more general focusing on making things gentler rather than protecting
to lenify
vsto soften
  • Archaic
9.9

To make someone feel calmer or less angry

focuses on broad reduction rather than personal soothing

Antonyms

27 2.6

Make something hard or solid

Idioms

8 4.7

Make bad news or a loss easier to accept

Phrasal Verbs

to soften up
  • Informal
19 3.9

To make someone more willing to agree or make something easier to bend

Make a person's cough less strong and easier to stop

How Gentle

to assuage
  • Formal
20 7.7
to alleviate
76 5.3
to mitigate
63 5.8
to soften
50 3.1
to temper
63 4.2
to tone down
44 3.7

Surface Forms

soften infinitive
softened past
softened past participle
softening present participle
softens third person singular

Morphology

soften = soft (transparent) = soft + en

Formed by the productive verb-forming suffix '-en' from the adjective 'soft', meaning 'make or become soft' in a straightforward way.

Etymology

Soften comes from the simple word soft and the ending -en, which means 'make' or 'become'. So to soften a rule or a criticism is to make it 'less hard' or 'less harsh', and that is why it means to make something gentler.