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to soften

to soften

49 3.3
Become more willing to change your mind
  • verb
  • /ˈsɔːfən/
translation icon : ceder en
  • The counselor's words helped to soften his rigid attitude towards therapy.
  • soften one's position
  • soften one's stance
  • soften one's opposition

All these things will soften his soul.

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Examples

  • Doesn't the look of desperation in my eyes soften your mood just a little?

  • Laborites, however, felt they had found a force to soften the cold inequalities of the market.

    Academic text (2003)
  • Told her it would soften him up.

  • I do hope that he could read between the lines and know that I'd soften slightly and like let him in a bit.

  • I had to believe that once Ruby saw that I was a friend, it would soften her up.

  • Take that chip off your shoulder, soften, have that desire in your heart to really make a change.

  • The Chinese American community similarly took note of and appeared to soften its opposition to intercultural couples.

    Academic text (2003)
  • American political culture has already softened up the ground for the darker possibilities of these technological developments.

    Academic text (1997)
  • I think what I'm trying to convey to people is it's worth softening our grip on the default path.

  • May kindness resound in our voice, softening the way that lies ahead.

Synonyms

to come around
vsto soften
81 4.1

To change your mind and accept something you first refused

describes yielding to influence rather than just later agreement
to yield
vsto soften
81 4.3

To stop resisting under pressure or force

focuses on changing opinion or attitude because of influence
to modify
vsto soften
66 3.5

Make something less strong or harsh

applies to becoming more open to change rather than to objects
to relent
vsto soften
31 5.8

To stop resisting and allow something to happen, like a person giving in or a storm easing

is about growing more willing to change under influence
to change one's tune
vsto soften
  • Informal
6 5.1

To show a different opinion after you were against it before

means a willingness to change gradually under outside pressure
to change someone's tune
vsto soften
  • Informal
5.0

To have a different opinion after seeing new facts or benefits

emphasizes yielding to pressure rather than reacting to facts

Antonyms

27 2.6

Make something hard or solid

Idioms

8 4.7

Make bad news or a loss easier to accept

Phrasal Verbs

to soften up
  • Informal
19 3.9

To make someone more willing to agree or make something easier to bend

Make a person's cough less strong and easier to stop

How Willing

to give in
220 3.0
to soften
49 3.3
to waver
52 5.7
to hesitate
318 2.5

Surface Forms

soften infinitive
softened past
softened past participle
softening present participle
softens third person singular

Morphology

soften = soft (transparent) = soft + en

The verb is formed by '-en' from 'soft' and here has a figurative extension 'make less rigid or severe', which is a regular and productive use.

Etymology

Soften comes from soft and -en, where -en means 'become' or 'make'. So when a person or position softens, they 'become less hard' or more willing to change, which is why the word means to give in or to become more flexible in attitude.