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to temper

to temper

63 4.2
Make a feeling or action less strong
  • verb
  • /ˈtɛmpər/
translation icon : moderar
  • He decided to temper his criticism of the project by offering constructive feedback instead.
  • tempered by reality
  • tempered by mercy
  • tempered by the fact

Well I think that the honesty needs to be tempered with love.

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Examples

  • Since we have the floor next in the debate, I thought I'd suggest you might temper your contribution so as not to frighten our conservative friends.

  • The excitement of discoveries on the nanoscale needs to be tempered with environmental and health concerns.

    Academic text (2013)
  • It's like he he wants to temper your expectations and slow things down.

  • You know, most human beings would temper their ideas because normally people like to fit in.

  • Well I think that the honesty needs to be tempered with love.

  • But today that pride must be tempered with a profound concern.

  • Such enthusiasm and optimism should, however, be tempered by a note of caution.

    Academic text (1999)
  • Temper your frustrations.

  • The teacher tried to temper the students' excitement with a few ground rules for the trip.

  • To ensure efficient teamwork, it's important to temper enthusiasm with realistic expectations.

Synonyms

to moderate
vsto temper
34 4.4

To make something less strong or intense

is the broader act of restraining or making something less extreme
to bate
vsto temper
  • Archaic
5 9.9

To hold back strong feelings or excitement

is the broader action of restraining strength in many contexts

Antonyms

110 4.0

Make something stronger or more intense

69 8.0

To make a problem or feeling worse

Idioms

To suddenly become very angry and not be able to control yourself

Stay calm and not get angry in a difficult situation

Compounds

14 3.4

A habit of getting angry easily and staying in a bad mood

3 4.1

Getting angry or losing patience very quickly

2 3.9

To become angry easily or suddenly

1 1.4

Feeling cheerful and pleasant with other people

1 4.6

A bad mood that makes someone easily angry

8.9

A tendency to get angry very quickly

How Restrained

to suppress
88 5.8
to restrain
72 4.6
to temper
63 4.2
to tone down
44 3.7
to dampen
16 4.4

Surface Forms

temper infinitive
tempered past
tempered past participle
tempering present participle
tempers third person singular

Etymology

Temper comes from the Latin temperare, meaning 'to keep in balance' or 'to mix properly', and it is the same root as temperate. So to temper something is to make it less strong or more balanced, to hold or soften it.