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avoidant

avoidant

1 7.7
Not wanting to feel close to others because it causes anxiety
  • adjective
  • /əˈvɔɪdənt/
  • Specialized
translation icon : evitativo
  • The pattern of social support shown by insecure persons, either avoidant or ambivalent, is also in line with our predictions.
  • avoidant strategies
  • avoidant attachment
  • avoidant style

And now it turns into avoidant behaviour on our part.

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Examples

  • Similarly, the outcomes of authoritarian parenting tend to overlap the characteristics of avoidant attachment.

    Academic text (2001)
  • Daughters who reported that they engaged in avoidant behaviors also reported greater psychological distress in the present.

    Academic text (1997)
  • And now it turns into avoidant behaviour on our part.

  • And when the traits were explained, I knew straight away I was avoidant straight away.

  • A similar pattern was identified among both secure and avoidant persons.

    Academic text (1995)
  • And I do think this is highly tied to the avoidant attachment style.

  • People who are avoidant don't trust easily.

  • So I tended to become more withdrawn or just a little bit more avoidant whenever people would ask me that question.

  • No significant difference was found between avoidant and ambivalent persons.

    Academic text (1995)
  • People with avoidant tendencies often struggle to open up about their feelings.

Synonyms

shy
vsavoidant
343 1.0

Nervous and likely to avoid people or new situations

is driven by anxiety to avoid close relationships and intimate situations
reluctant
vsavoidant
247 3.5

Not willing to do something because you feel unsure

specifically resists close relationships or anxiety-provoking intimacy rather than general hesitation
aloof
vsavoidant
34 6.3

Not friendly and distant, not joining in with other people

is inward avoidance rooted in anxiety about closeness, not just a distant manner
reclusive
vsavoidant
24 7.4

Tends to live alone and avoid other people

avoids closeness mainly due to anxiety, not just a general preference for solitude
reticent
vsavoidant
17 7.9

Not willing to talk about thoughts or feelings easily

avoids closeness specifically because intimate sharing causes anxiety or discomfort
antisocial
vsavoidant
14 5.1

Preferring to be alone and avoiding social situations

targets avoiding close relationships driven by discomfort, not only dislike of company
standoffish
vsavoidant
9 7.1

Not friendly and keeping a distance from others

is about retreat from intimacy due to anxiety rather than intentional coldness
unapproachable
vsavoidant
3 6.6

Not friendly and hard to talk to so people avoid them

avoids intimate contact because it causes anxiety, not merely to seem distant
unsociable
vsavoidant
2 5.3

A person who does not enjoy being with other people

centers on avoiding intimate or anxiety-filled interactions, not only low enjoyment
asocial
vsavoidant
1 7.2

Prefers to be alone and avoids meeting other people

is focused on avoiding close emotional connections because they cause anxiety
unsocial
vsavoidant
1 4.8

Prefers being alone and avoids spending time with others

places avoidance on fear of intimacy or anxiety rather than simple preference
withdrawn
vsavoidant
4.8

Someone who is quiet and prefers to be alone instead of being with others

is motivated by fear of intimacy or uncomfortable situations rather than simple solitude
seclusive
vsavoidant
7.7

A person who prefers to be alone or a place that gives privacy

is about avoiding intimacy from fear rather than choosing privacy for comfort
dissocial
vsavoidant
  • UK
8.4

Prefers to be alone and avoids other people

is specifically about fleeing intimacy or anxiety-provoking situations, not only general contact
ungregarious
vsavoidant
9.9

Not sociable and preferring to be alone

avoids forming close relations because such intimacy causes anxiety or discomfort

Antonyms

702 1.0

Willing to consider new ideas

15 3.4

Friendly and easy to talk to so people feel comfortable

How Avoidant

withdrawn
4.8
aloof
34 6.3
avoidant
  • Specialized
1 7.7
reserved
3.7
reluctant
247 3.5
hesitant
73 3.2

Surface Forms

avoidant positive

Morphology

avoidant = avoid (transparent) = avoid + ant

Formed by adding the adjectival suffix '-ant' to the verb 'avoid', yielding 'tending to avoid', which is directly inferable from the base verb.

Etymology

Avoidant comes from the verb avoid and the ending -ant, which means 'doing' or 'tending to'. So an avoidant person is someone who 'keeps away' or stays distant, which is why the word describes people who are reluctant to form close emotional relationships.