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unapproachable

unapproachable

3 6.6
Not friendly and hard to talk to so people avoid them
  • adjective
  • /ˌʌnəˈproʊtʃəbl/
translation icon : inaccesible
  • Because something about her was unapproachable.
  • seem unapproachable
  • distant and unapproachable
  • so unapproachable

If you make God too absolute and unapproachable, then why does he care about us?

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Examples

  • You know, you're kind of scary and unapproachable.

  • Through the glass doors, we see Tatiana, the Dowager Empress, 60, imperious and bedecked with jewels; she is seemingly unapproachable.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • It's like trying to look as unapproachable as possible.

  • You know, other people might seem unapproachable, but hey, you put out, you put out an effort, you ask a question.

  • As far as I can tell, the issue is guys who think most women are unapproachable.

    Blog text (2)
  • To the uninitiated, school boards seem unapproachable.

    Academic text (2001)
  • "Their work and stereotypical intellectual ability can make scientists seem unapproachable."

    Academic text (1995)
  • To Saneko's eyes, Noriko, who had at first seemed so stern and unapproachable, had, day by day, become a comfortable person to be around.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • A common complaint in many lawsuits is that following surgery, the physician was arrogant, inattentive, unapproachable, or absent.

    Academic text (2006)
  • She often appears unapproachable in meetings, making it hard for her colleagues to share their ideas.

Synonyms

shy
vsunapproachable
343 1.0

Nervous and likely to avoid people or new situations

appears reserved in a way that puts others off approaching
distant
vsunapproachable
61 4.9

Not friendly or warm, behaving in a quiet, cold way

adds a clear barrier that makes approach difficult
aloof
vsunapproachable
34 6.3

Not friendly and distant, not joining in with other people

looks reserved and discourages people from approaching
reclusive
vsunapproachable
24 7.4

Tends to live alone and avoid other people

appears private yet also gives a discouraging, offputting presence
unfriendly
vsunapproachable
22 1.9

Not kind or warm to other people

is more about being hard to approach than simple unkindness
antisocial
vsunapproachable
14 5.1

Preferring to be alone and avoiding social situations

shows reserved distance but also discourages others from making contact
standoffish
vsunapproachable
9 7.1

Not friendly and keeping a distance from others

shows distance that actively keeps others from coming near
unwelcoming
vsunapproachable
3 4.5

Not friendly and making people feel unwanted or uncomfortable

creates personal distance that specifically stops others from approaching
unsociable
vsunapproachable
2 5.3

A person who does not enjoy being with other people

appears distant in a way that also keeps others from approaching
avoidant
vsunapproachable
  • Specialized
1 7.7

Not wanting to feel close to others because it causes anxiety

seems distant in social manner and also deters approach
unsocial
vsunapproachable
1 4.8

Prefers being alone and avoids spending time with others

looks reserved but with the added effect of discouraging approach
alienating
vsunapproachable
7.3

Causing someone to feel alone and not part of a group

shows reserved behaviour that discourages approach rather than actively excluding
ungregarious
vsunapproachable
9.9

Not sociable and preferring to be alone

is similar but also gives an offputting impression that blocks approach
withdrawn
vsunapproachable
4.8

Someone who is quiet and prefers to be alone instead of being with others

is reserved but also presents a barrier that deters approach
unexpansive
vsunapproachable
8.6

Not talking much and not showing strong feelings

projects restraint that makes others less likely to approach
uncompanionable
vsunapproachable
8.3

Not friendly and hard to get along with

is more about creating a forbidding presence that blocks approach

Antonyms

773 1.0

Kind and helpful toward other people

21 1.6

Enjoying being with other people and making friends

15 3.4

Friendly and easy to talk to so people feel comfortable

How Approachable

friendly
773 1.0
approachable
15 3.4
reserved
3.7
unapproachable
3 6.6
distant
61 4.9
unfriendly
22 1.9
hostile
194 4.6

Surface Forms

unapproachable positive

Morphology

unapproachable = approachable (transparent) = un + approach + able

The social meaning is the negation of 'approachable' (not easy to approach socially), a clear prefixation.

Etymology

Unapproachable is made of un- ('not') and approach ('to come near'). So an unapproachable person seems hard to get close to or to talk to.