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distant

distant

61 4.9
Not friendly or warm, behaving in a quiet, cold way
  • adjective
  • /ˈdɪstənt/
translation icon : distante
  • The women remained cool and distant toward each other, even in Serena's presence.
  • become distant
  • remain distant
  • cold and distant

And so he's aloof, he's distant, he's not present.

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Examples

  • I know that I've been a little distant.

  • She remained distant during the conversation, avoiding eye contact and keeping her answers short.

  • So like he just, he got kind of more and more distant as he got more and more famous.

  • My mother became more distant; she left for work earlier and returned later at night.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • You seem a bit distant.

  • My dad thinks that he can motivate his workers... by being a cold, distant authority figure.

  • We sat for an uncomfortable minute or so while she took on that distant, distracted look again.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • His wife said he'd grown increasingly distant of late.

  • He's been so edgy and... distant.

  • Janet, if I've been difficult or distant... ...for the last couple of days, I hope you'll understand.

Synonyms

aloof
vsdistant
34 6.3

Not friendly and distant, not joining in with other people

is not friendly in manner but can still show some social contact
detached
vsdistant
27 5.5

A person who is not affected by personal feelings and shows little emotion

is unfriendly in manner while still sometimes feeling personal emotion
worlds away
vsdistant
  • Informal
20 6.8

Very different in life, feeling, or situation

focuses on being unfriendly or reserved rather than being very different
remote
vsdistant
15 5.4

Only slightly connected to someone or something

is about an unfriendly manner rather than about weak connection
standoffish
vsdistant
9 7.1

Not friendly and keeping a distance from others

is unfriendly too but often less actively avoidant of others
unapproachable
vsdistant
3 6.6

Not friendly and hard to talk to so people avoid them

is unfriendly in manner but not always actively discouraging contact
offish
vsdistant
1 8.2

Not friendly and avoids talking to other people

is similarly reserved but may allow more casual contact

Antonyms

773 1.0

Kind and helpful toward other people

15 3.4

Friendly and easy to talk to so people feel comfortable

Compounds

7.2

A hope that seems unlikely to come true

How Friendly

warm
280 1.0
distant
61 4.9
reserved
3.7
aloof
34 6.3

Surface Forms

distant positive
distanter comparative
distantest superlative

Morphology

distant = distance (semi-transparent) = distance + ant

The social/attitudinal sense ('not friendly') is a metaphorical extension of physical separation and may not be fully predictable for all learners.

Etymology

Distant comes from the parts dis- 'apart' and stand 'to stand', so a person who is 'distant' seems to 'stand apart' and act cold or not friendly.