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avoidant

avoidant

8.6
A person who does not want to feel close to others because it causes anxiety
  • noun
  • /əˈvɔɪdənt/
  • Specialized
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  • You might notice that an avoidant has a hard time sharing personal thoughts due to their fear of intimacy.

You have secure, you have anxious and then you have avoidant, right?

Examples

  • You have secure, you have anxious and then you have avoidant, right?

  • Guys, when you're dating an avoidant, remember no clinginess allowed.

  • And yeah, I think the avoidant person will also feel more.

  • And yeah, I think the avoidant person will also feel more.

  • A person can have both a vulnerable narcissistic personality and an avoidant personality style.

  • But, as avoidants, we have to make sure that we don't use the excuse that "therapy doesn't work."

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  • We all know that as avoidants, we're good at making excuses to ourselves about why we won't do something, go somewhere, etc., but that's a very bad habit to get into.

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  • An avoidant may struggle to open up emotionally to their partner, fearing it could lead to rejection.

  • In relationships, an avoidant often prefers to keep their distance instead of getting too close.

Synonyms

loner
vsavoidant
79 4.2

A person who prefers to be alone and avoids spending time with others

keeps away from close emotional ties mainly due to fear not preference
recluse
vsavoidant
22 7.8

A person who lives alone and avoids other people

focuses on fearing close emotional bonds rather than full societal withdrawal
introvert
vsavoidant
21 5.1

A person who prefers being alone or small groups and feels tired by social activity

is driven by fear of intimacy rather than a simple energy preference
shy person
vsavoidant
4 2.5

A person who feels nervous around others and avoids social situations

keeps distance from deep emotional contact because of fear not shyness
avoider
vsavoidant
1 4.6

A person who stays away from conflict or difficult talks

is motivated by fear of rejection and discomfort with emotional closeness
solitary
vsavoidant
1 7.2

A person who lives alone and avoids the company of others

is more about fearing intimate relationships than simple solitude
withdrawer
vsavoidant
9.0

A person who avoids social contact and prefers being alone

focuses on staying distant from close emotional ties because of fear
shunner
vsavoidant
8.1

A person who avoids people and social events

keeps clear of intimate relationships because of fear rather than choice

Antonyms

5.8

A person who takes part actively in a group or discussion

How Avoidant

recluse
22 7.8
avoidant
  • Specialized
8.6
loner
79 4.2
introvert
21 5.1
extrovert
7 3.9
socializer
  • US
1 3.8

Surface Forms

avoidant singular
avoidants plural

Morphology

avoidant = avoidant (semi-transparent) = avoid + ant

The noun use is a conversion of the adjective 'avoidant', which is itself transparently formed from 'avoid' + '-ant'.

Etymology

Avoidant comes from the verb avoid plus the ending -ant, where -ant marks a person 'doing' the action. So an avoidant is literally someone who 'keeps away', which fits the idea of a person who avoids close emotional contact.