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abrasiveness

abrasiveness

1 7.0
A harsh, rude manner or tone that offends people
  • noun
  • /əˈbreɪsɪvnəs/
translation icon : abrasividad
  • The manager's abrasiveness frequently led to misunderstandings among the team.

Examples

  • His constant abrasiveness made it difficult for his colleagues to work with him.

  • There's no real conflict in his story, other than some mixed signals from that gorgeous gal from Cabin in the Woods (Kristin Connolly) and the persistent abrasiveness of his best friend (Jennifer Carpenter, Dexter).

    Blog text (25)
  • Now, some may not like that I speak the truth or my abrasiveness in doing it in a way that forces others to look at themselves and what they stand for.

    Blog text (24)
  • Examples of China's recent abrasiveness abound.

    Academic text (2011)
  • But there was an abrasiveness and an anger in this woman which she at once understood, knowing her story, and found unnecessary and self-defeating.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • The writers seem to be hoping her abrasiveness is amusing, but so far it isn't, and I don't see why Sam doesn't just pack up the dog and hit the road.

    Blog text (29)
  • Her cool silences were draining, perhaps even more demanding than Abel's abrasiveness since at least the man could be dismissed as a crank when he ranted.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • She was known for her abrasiveness, which often offended those around her.

Synonyms

rudeness
vsabrasiveness
27 1.8

Lack of politeness or respect for other people

is more about harshness that actively causes offence
acrimony
vsabrasiveness
10 8.8

A bitter, angry feeling shown in words or actions

is about rudeness that may be less emotionally bitter
harshness
vsabrasiveness
6 4.1

Very severe or unkind treatment that causes harm

is more about social rudeness and causing offence
bluntness
vsabrasiveness
6 4.8

A direct and honest way of speaking that can seem rude

is more cutting and likely to offend rather than merely plain honesty
sharp tongue
vsabrasiveness
4 6.1

A habit of speaking in a harsh, critical way

focuses on general manner, not only sharp spoken remarks
nastiness
vsabrasiveness
3 5.0

A strong unpleasant quality that makes people uncomfortable

is about harsh manner that may be less violent or cruel
coarseness
vsabrasiveness
2 6.4

Rudeness or crude behavior that shows little politeness

is often sharper and more personally offensive than crude conduct
offensiveness
vsabrasiveness
2 6.7

A quality that makes people feel hurt or angry

is more about a harsh manner or tone that produces that reaction
obnoxiousness
vsabrasiveness
2 8.0

Being very rude and annoying to other people

is a milder, manner-based offence rather than extreme unpleasantness
abusiveness
vsabrasiveness
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1 7.0

Mean words or actions that hurt other people

focuses on a harsh manner rather than deliberate cruelty
sharpness
vsabrasiveness
1 4.6

A harsh, sudden way of speaking that sounds unfriendly

is more socially rude rather than merely abrupt or urgent
brusqueness
vsabrasiveness
1 7.9

A short, direct way of speaking that often seems rude

is harsher and more likely to insult than brief cold manner
cattiness
vsabrasiveness
1 8.1

Saying small mean things to hurt someone in a quiet way

is more openly harsh in tone rather than sly or mean remarks
crudeness
vsabrasiveness
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1 6.3

Rude, vulgar, or insensitive behaviour that upsets people

is harsher in tone and more likely to wound feelings
indelicacy
vsabrasiveness
  • Formal
1 8.1

Words or actions that are rude and hurt other people's feelings

is harsher and more likely to offend rather than merely be tactless
gruffness
vsabrasiveness
1 6.6

A rough, unfriendly way of speaking or acting

is more about rudeness that causes hurt rather than mere rough speech
boorishness
vsabrasiveness
1 8.1

Rude, insensitive behavior that ignores good manners

is sharper and more likely to offend socially than mere uncouthness
acerbity
vsabrasiveness
1 9.8

A sharp, bitter way of speaking that hurts people

is rude in manner without the same sharp bitterness
roughness
vsabrasiveness
1 3.9

A harsh quality in a voice or behavior that feels severe

is more about causing offence than just being unpolished
ungentleness
vsabrasiveness
1 8.2

A harsh, unkind way of speaking or acting

is strong rudeness that actively offends rather than just being firm
heavy-handedness
vsabrasiveness
1 7.6

Being too forceful and not subtle in actions or words

is about rude tone rather than clumsy or forceful treatment
contumely
vsabrasiveness
  • Offensive
9.9

Rude words or actions that aim to hurt someone

is broader including general harsh manner not only insults
acridity
vsabrasiveness
9.4

A harsh tone in speech or writing that hurts people

is more about manner that offends than pure bitterness
acridness
vsabrasiveness
8.4

A sharp, bitter way of speaking that hurts people

focuses on rude manner rather than only sharp unpleasantness
causticity
vsabrasiveness
9.7

Speech or writing that is sharply critical and makes people feel bad

is about rude manner rather than pointed criticism or sarcasm
thorniness
vsabrasiveness
8.9

A harsh, unfriendly manner that hurts or upsets people

is more about offending others than being merely difficult
brutishness
vsabrasiveness
  • Offensive
7.8

Being cruel and showing little kindness

is milder focusing on offensive manner not violent cruelty

Antonyms

19 1.3

A kind, calm way of treating people or animals

Careful and kind behavior when dealing with people to avoid hurting them

How Abrasive

rudeness
27 1.8
abrasiveness
1 7.0
brusqueness
1 7.9
curtness
1 7.0
politeness
26 1.3

Surface Forms

abrasiveness singular

Morphology

abrasiveness = abrasive (semi-transparent) = abrade + ive + ness

The adjective 'abrasive' is a regular formation from 'abrade' + '-ive', yielding a predictable adjectival meaning.

Etymology

Abrasiveness comes from the Latin parts ab- 'away' and radere 'to scrape', which gives the image of something that 'scrapes away' friendliness. Think of a harsh tone as 'scraping' at people's feelings, so abrasiveness means a rough, rude way of acting that can hurt others.