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politeness

politeness

26 1.3
Showing good manners and respect to other people
  • noun
  • /pəˈlaɪtnəs/
translation icon : cortesía
  • Her politeness made a lasting impression on everyone she met.
  • respect and politeness
  • politeness and propriety
  • rules of politeness

If you get hypocritical politeness, you might lose a lot.

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Examples

  • The English had all been very polite, but below the politeness was a chilly aloofness.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • I had declined his offer with chilly politeness, and only then had Holman played his trump card.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • What a model of politeness you two are.

  • There is such a thing as common everyday politeness and gratitude.

  • By then, everyone had eaten, but they ate again, out of politeness, and said nothing.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • If you're really serious, the least we can do in common politeness is to hear you out.

  • Ideas and contributions must be respected, and politeness must be inherent in the discussion.

    Academic text (2012)
  • Walter welcomed me with demonstrative politeness and introduced me to his staff.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • She made her parents proud with her politeness and gymnastic skills.

  • When cultural norms in favor of politeness or compliance are overlooked, the result can be disastrous.

    Academic text (1998)

Synonyms

respect
vspoliteness
1.0

Polite actions or words that show you value someone

is broader and includes general thoughtful behaviour and social consideration
courtesy
vspoliteness
296 1.9

Polite actions or words that show respect for other people

is the general quality of treating others with care and respect
manners
vspoliteness
248 1.0

Polite ways of behaving toward other people, like saying please and thank you

focuses more on thoughtful consideration and respect than only social rules
decency
vspoliteness
155 3.0

Polite, respectful behavior that follows common social rules

focuses more on kindness and regard rather than strictly moral correctness
civility
vspoliteness
71 4.2

Polite and respectful words and actions toward other people

is broader, applying to everyday considerate behaviour not only formal speech
decorum
vspoliteness
  • Formal
30 7.3

Polite and proper behavior in formal situations

emphasizes showing consideration and respect rather than only correct appearance
good manners
vspoliteness
23 1.0

Polite and respectful actions toward other people

is the inner quality or intent behind those outward behaviours
niceness
vspoliteness
11 1.3

A kind and polite way of treating other people

emphasizes respectful conduct and attention rather than mere pleasantness
thoughtfulness
vspoliteness
8 2.9

Being kind and careful about other people's needs and feelings

includes public actions and manners as well as private care towards people
graciousness
vspoliteness
6 4.1

Being kind, polite, and generous to other people

is mainly about considered actions and respect without extra generosity
politesse
vspoliteness
  • Formal
1 9.9

Formal good manners and speech that shows respect for others

is the everyday quality of consideration and respectful actions not exclusive to formality
respectfulness
vspoliteness
1 3.9

Polite and kind behavior toward other people's feelings and wishes

is broader, covering general considerate behaviour beyond only regard for feelings
decorousness
vspoliteness
  • Formal
1 8.4

A polite way of behaving that follows social rules

is broader, stressing kindness and regard beyond mere propriety
courteousness
vspoliteness
3.5

A polite way of behaving that shows respect for other people

includes both the inner quality and the actual actions that display it
considerateness
vspoliteness
6.1

Care for other people's needs and feelings

is broader, covering general conduct and formal regard beyond care for needs
seemliness
vspoliteness
  • Formal
8.9

Good behaviour that follows social rules and shows respect for others

prioritizes showing consideration and respect rather than only social correctness

Antonyms

27 1.8

Lack of politeness or respect for other people

1 4.1

Rude or disrespectful behavior toward other people

How Polite

deference
34 7.8
politeness
26 1.3
courtesy
296 1.9
civility
71 4.2

Surface Forms

politeness singular
politenesses plural

Morphology

politeness = polite (transparent) = polite + ness

A straightforward nominalization of the adjective 'polite' with '-ness'; the meaning is directly derived and easily inferable.

Etymology

Politeness comes from polite, which originally meant 'polished' or 'refined' and is the same idea behind the word polish. So, politeness is being 'polished' in your behavior—showing good manners and respect.