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indelicacy

indelicacy

1 8.1
Words or actions that are rude and hurt other people's feelings
  • noun
  • /ˌɪnˈdɛlɪkəsi/
  • Formal
translation icon : indelicadeza
  • Despite the political indelicacy, I ask those I meet how someone could hack a neighbor to death with a machete.

Examples

  • Forgive the indelicacy, Lois, but you look terrible.

  • The rest of the story contains certain... indelicacies which are best discussed among men.

  • "Pardon the indelicacy," he said, which made me smile, though I tried not to.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • And you want to talk about indelicacies!

  • Yet, up to no more than a month ago, forgive the indelicacy of a policeman, the same young lady was equally devoted to you.

  • I'm a doctor, and if I may be permitted the indelicacy, you seen one, you've seen 'em all.

  • Any errors of fact or indelicacies of tone remain exclusively my responsibility.

    Academic text (1991)
  • He could only settle his ideas by supposing she really loved Major Cerwood and had suffered her character to be infected by the indelicacy that made a part of his own.

    Academic text (2018)
  • He not only condemns that "vulgar language and indelicacy of incident" to which traditionalists had objected in the work of Remarque and others, but he defends the memory of the "gallant" dead who were much and always more than passive victims.

    Academic text (2013)
  • She showed great indelicacy when she brought up his recent breakup during dinner.

Synonyms

insult
vsindelicacy
  • Offensive
313 1.3

A rude remark or action that hurts someone's feelings

can include less deliberate lack of sensitivity, not only intentional attacks
disrespect
vsindelicacy
133 3.4

Rude behavior or words that show a lack of respect for someone

often focuses more on hurting feelings than on basic bad manners
affront
vsindelicacy
28 7.4

A deliberate action that offends or shows no respect

covers rude or insensitive acts even when they are not meant to offend
rudeness
vsindelicacy
27 1.8

Lack of politeness or respect for other people

focuses more on lack of sensitivity rather than general poor manners
insolence
vsindelicacy
19 7.2

Rude behavior or speech toward someone in authority

is broader, not limited to defiance toward authority figures
insensitivity
vsindelicacy
16 5.5

A lack of care for other people's feelings or needs

is broader, covering both bad manners and emotional callousness
indecency
vsindelicacy
  • NSFW
12 6.3

Behavior or speech people find offensive and wrong

is milder, referring to plain lack of sensitivity rather than moral wrongness
slight
vsindelicacy
  • Offensive
7 7.0

An act or remark that shows a lack of respect

is wider, including accidental lack of sensitivity not purposely demeaning
impertinence
vsindelicacy
7 8.1

Rude behavior or remarks that show a lack of respect

is milder, focusing on general lack of sensitivity rather than boldness
irreverence
vsindelicacy
6 7.9

A lack of respect for people or things that are usually respected

is less about sacred matters and more about everyday social insensitivity
incivility
vsindelicacy
5 7.9

Rude behavior that shows no politeness

covers similar acts but also unthinking hurt caused by carelessness
offensiveness
vsindelicacy
2 6.7

A quality that makes people feel hurt or angry

leans more toward awkward lack of sensitivity rather than strong moral offence
brusqueness
vsindelicacy
1 7.9

A short, direct way of speaking that often seems rude

is more about lack of feeling for others rather than blunt efficiency
impoliteness
vsindelicacy
1 4.1

Rude or disrespectful behavior toward other people

is broader and includes lack of feeling as well as discourtesy
abrasiveness
vsindelicacy
1 7.0

A harsh, rude manner or tone that offends people

is milder, covering lack of sensitivity without aggressive sharpness
acerbity
vsindelicacy
1 9.8

A sharp, bitter way of speaking that hurts people

is less about bitterness and more about plain insensitivity or bad manners
snippiness
vsindelicacy
1 7.7

A short, slightly rude way of speaking to someone

is broader, including many forms of thoughtless or insensitive behaviour
ungentleness
vsindelicacy
1 8.2

A harsh, unkind way of speaking or acting

is less physical, focusing on social lack of sensitivity or bad manners
ungraciousness
vsindelicacy
8.1

Being rude and not polite to other people

is less about bluntness and more about being cold or curt
inconsiderateness
vsindelicacy
7.9

Not thinking about other people's feelings or needs

is milder, being careless rather than intentionally offensive or cruel
insensitiveness
vsindelicacy
7.6

Not noticing or caring about how other people feel

is the same idea but stresses emotional numbness rather than bad manners
offensive activity
vsindelicacy
  • Offensive
6.3

Bad behavior that shows little respect and hurts others

is less about formal wrongdoing and more about everyday bad manners
indecorum
vsindelicacy
  • Formal
9.9

Bad behaviour that breaks common polite rules

is less formal, highlighting simple social awkwardness rather than strict breach
indecorousness
vsindelicacy
  • Formal
9.9

Lack of polite behavior or good taste

is used for rude or insensitive acts more than breaches of taste
acridness
vsindelicacy
8.4

A sharp, bitter way of speaking that hurts people

is softer, referring to general lack of care for others' feelings
distastefulness
vsindelicacy
6.1

Being unpleasant or offensive and making people feel dislike

is narrower, referring to rude actions rather than general unpleasantness
indiscreetness
vsindelicacy
8.4

A habit of saying secrets or acting without thinking

is different, focusing on poor manners and lack of sensitivity rather than privacy

Antonyms

Careful and kind behavior when dealing with people to avoid hurting them

How Rude

outrage
79 3.5
rudeness
27 1.8
indelicacy
  • Formal
1 8.1

Surface Forms

indelicacy singular
indelicacies plural

Morphology

indelicacy = indelicate (semi-transparent) = in + delicate + cy

The meaning is directly 'the quality or instance of being indelicate', but the adjective-to-noun formation involves a slightly less obvious stem change to -cy.

Etymology

Indelicacy starts with in- meaning 'not' and shares a root with delicate and delight, which originally meant 'to please'. So indelicacy is like 'not being delicate', meaning saying or doing something that is rude or not careful with people's feelings.