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cattiness

cattiness

1 8.1
Saying small mean things to hurt someone in a quiet way
  • noun
  • /ˈkæt̬i.nəs/
translation icon : malicia
  • Despite their sweet smiles, there was an undercurrent of cattiness in the way they spoke about each other's success.

Because we all know that there is a cattiness and a jealousy that is inherent in women from birth.

Examples

  • She was amazed that her mind was racing on at this level of trivial cattiness when the man was before her like this: grave, respectful, and infatuated, all too willing to worship her.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • I was in my school's theater program and saw a lot of cattiness, undermining, and cruelty—all the hallmarks of bullying.

    Blog text (9)
  • Gossip and cattiness are ugly; choose to be beautiful.

    Blog text (21)
  • Birth is beautiful, birth is a miracle, and let's look at the beauty and stop with the cattiness.

    Blog text (4)
  • Wow, wow, wow, the cattiness astounds me!

    Blog text (4)
  • I hate the shrill laughter and the cattiness.

    Blog text (26)
  • Doctors and other RNs are very "unprofessional"; a lot of yelling and cattiness goes on.

    Blog text (25)
  • Her cattiness came through in the subtle remarks she made about her colleague's outfit.

  • The cattiness displayed during the meeting made it clear there was tension among the team members.

Synonyms

spite
vscattiness
322 4.4

A feeling of wanting to hurt or annoy someone

is the same malicious attitude but often expressed in subtle, indirect acts
nastiness
vscattiness
12 4.8

Mean or cruel behavior meant to hurt someone

adds indirect, sly unpleasantness rather than plain harshness
acrimony
vscattiness
10 8.8

A bitter, angry feeling shown in words or actions

adds personal malice and indirect nastiness beyond mere bitterness
pettiness
vscattiness
9 6.2

Being too worried about small unimportant things and not generous

is more about being quietly spiteful rather than merely small-mindedness
meanness
vscattiness
9 5.4

Being unkind on purpose to other people

leans more toward subtle, indirect unpleasantness rather than open cruelty
bitchiness
vscattiness
  • Offensive
3 8.5

A way of behaving that is mean and hurtful to other people

is the same unkind quality but noted for subtle indirect expression
bitchery
vscattiness
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A way of talking and acting that is mean and hurts people

is the broader unpleasant quality rather than the collection of remarks
spitefulness
vscattiness
1 7.4

A wish to hurt, upset, or annoy other people

is similar but often acts in quieter, indirect ways rather than blunt harm
snideness
vscattiness
1 8.1

A mocking way of speaking that shows dislike or disrespect

is more about sly, mean attitude than open mockery or sarcasm
acerbity
vscattiness
1 9.8

A sharp, bitter way of speaking that hurts people

includes spitefulness but usually highlights biting tone over covert meanness
catty behavior
vscattiness
  • Offensive
7.7

Mean words or actions that secretly hurt people in a social group

is the general nasty quality rather than the specific social actions
meanspiritedness
vscattiness
  • Offensive
7.9

Being unkind and cruel to other people on purpose

focuses more on quiet, spiteful attitude rather than overt cruelty
acridity
vscattiness
9.4

A harsh tone in speech or writing that hurts people

is similar but puts more weight on hidden, malicious attitude
acridness
vscattiness
8.4

A sharp, bitter way of speaking that hurts people

adds the element of subtle malice rather than just harshness

Antonyms

297 1.0

Friendly and generous actions that help or comfort other people

16 6.1

Kind feelings and actions that help other people

How Spiteful

spitefulness
1 7.4
meanness
9 5.4
cattiness
1 8.1
pettiness
9 6.2

Surface Forms

cattiness singular
cattinesses plural

Morphology

cattiness = catty (semi-transparent) = cat + y + ness

The adjective 'catty' is formed from 'cat' + '-y' with a figurative meaning ('spiteful'), so while the noun formation with '-ness' is regular, the adjective's meaning is metaphorical and not fully predictable.

Etymology

Cattiness comes from cat with the endings -y and -ness, literally meaning 'cat-like'. Think of a cat's hiss or sudden scratch: a catty remark is a small, mean comment, so cattiness is the habit of saying sly or spiteful things.