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abrasively

abrasively

6.5
In a harsh, rude way that upsets people when speaking or acting
  • adverb
  • /əˈbreɪsɪvli/
translation icon : de manera áspera
  • I wish I could have worded things more thoughtfully and less abrasively.

Examples

  • She criticized her colleague's work abrasively, making him feel uncomfortable during the meeting.

  • The teacher spoke abrasively to the students, causing some to feel offended by her tone.

  • Mr. Hanauer gave a mediocre, abrasively partisan talk that rehashed old ideas and stretched to conclusions that were not supported by any cited evidence.

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  • When discussing the project, he expressed his opinions abrasively, which led to tension among the team.

Synonyms

harshly
vsabrasively
49 3.5

In a severe or unkind way that feels unpleasant

is similar but more likely to irritate or offend others
sharply
vsabrasively
44 2.8

In a harsh, angry way when speaking to someone

is rougher and more likely to cause irritation or offense
bluntly
vsabrasively
40 4.6

In a direct way that is not polite

is harsher and tends to offend by roughness rather than frankness
roughly
vsabrasively
36 1.4

In a hard, violent way that shows no care

is rougher in tone and often irritates rather than injures
coldly
vsabrasively
30 4.0

In a way that shows little feeling or kindness to other people

is rougher and more likely to irritate or offend than just coldness
rudely
vsabrasively
25 1.3

In a way that is not polite and shows no respect

is rougher and often causes discomfort beyond simple rudeness
offensively
vsabrasively
  • Offensive
15 4.5

In a rude or unpleasant way that upsets people

is rougher in manner and often also physically irritating
unkindly
vsabrasively
4 4.4

To act in a harsh or mean way that hurts others

is rougher and more likely to make people uncomfortable
gruffly
vsabrasively
3 6.3

Talk in a rough, unfriendly way

is rougher and more irritating rather than just unfriendly
brusquely
vsabrasively
3 7.4

In a short, rude way that shows little patience

is rougher and more likely to cause hurt or irritation
insultingly
vsabrasively
  • Offensive
2 5.9

In a rude way that tries to hurt someone's feelings

is rougher and may hurt by tone rather than direct insult
nastily
vsabrasively
2 5.1

In an unpleasant, angry, or mean way

is rougher and tends to cause general discomfort or offense
tartly
vsabrasively
2 7.1

In a sharp, slightly angry way that can hurt people's feelings

is harsher and more likely to irritate by roughness
abusively
vsabrasively
  • NSFW
2 6.3

In a cruel way that often uses hurtful words or actions

is rougher in manner and often causes discomfort rather than harm
scathingly
vsabrasively
1 7.9

Saying something in a very harsh and critical way

is rougher in tone and often causes offense or pain
discourteously
vsabrasively
1 6.9

In a rude or impolite way

is rougher and tends to cause discomfort or offense through manner
crassly
vsabrasively
  • Offensive
1 7.8

In a way that shows no care for other people's feelings

is rougher and likely to irritate or offend by harshness
acidly
vsabrasively
1 5.1

In a sharp, rude way that shows sarcasm

is rougher and often makes people uncomfortable
hostilely
vsabrasively
1 7.4

In an unfriendly way that shows anger or dislike

is rougher in tone but not always showing clear hostility
impolitely
vsabrasively
1 4.2

In a rude way that shows little respect for others

is rougher and more likely to irritate by harsh tone rather than mere rudeness
acerbically
vsabrasively
1 8.1

In a sharp, hurtful way when criticizing someone

is rougher and more likely to cause discomfort than that
ungently
vsabrasively
1 8.0

In a rough way that hurts or upsets someone

is rougher and more likely to make people uncomfortable
hurtfully
vsabrasively
1 4.1

In a way that makes someone feel sad or in pain

is more about irritating or offending by rough manner
rankly
vsabrasively
1 7.8

In a very strong and unpleasant way that is easy to notice

is rougher in manner and often creates irritation or offense
cattily
vsabrasively
1 8.9

Says things in a mean, slightly cruel way to hurt someone

is rougher and likely to hurt by raw harshness rather than subtlety
irately
vsabrasively
1 6.8

In an angry way

is rougher and more likely to upset or offend rather than just anger
boorishly
vsabrasively
  • Offensive
1 8.2

In a rude way that shows no respect for others

is rougher and more likely to cause direct discomfort or offense
with asperity
vsabrasively
  • Formal
9.9

In a harsh, angry way that shows someone is not happy

is rougher in feeling and often causes discomfort or offense
astringently
vsabrasively
  • Formal
8.1

In a sharp, harsh way that shows strong criticism

is harsher in manner and more likely to irritate people
acridly
vsabrasively
8.2

In a sharp, bitter way that hurts people with words

is rougher and more likely to offend by harsh feeling
acrimoniously
vsabrasively
8.1

In a bitter, angry way during a disagreement

is more about rough manner that causes discomfort rather than anger
stingingly
vsabrasively
7.7

In a sharply critical way that hurts someone's feelings

is rougher and more likely to cause physical or strong offense
cuttingly
vsabrasively
7.4

In a way that aims to hurt someone's feelings

is rougher and may cause general discomfort beyond verbal hurt
bruisingly
vsabrasively
7.9

In a way that causes pain to the body or feelings

is less focused on physical harm and more on irritation or offense
vituperatively
vsabrasively
  • Offensive
9.9

To criticise someone using very harsh, insulting words

is rougher in texture and may cause physical irritation
meanspiritedly
vsabrasively
  • Offensive
8.5

In a mean way that tries to hurt someone

is rougher in manner and usually makes people feel uncomfortable
contumeliously
vsabrasively
  • Offensive
9.9

In a rude, insulting way that shows clear disrespect

is rougher and more likely to irritate by tone than insult
derisorily
vsabrasively
  • Offensive
9.9

In a mocking way that shows you think someone is silly

is rougher and may cause discomfort rather than mockery
waspishly
vsabrasively
8.4

In an angry, sharp way that shows someone is annoyed

is rougher and more likely to offend through its manner
irascibly
vsabrasively
  • Formal
9.1

In an angry way that shows someone gets annoyed easily

is rougher in behavior and designed to cause discomfort or offense

Antonyms

372 1.0

To do something with little force to avoid hurting or making noise

4 4.4

In a careful, kind way when talking to avoid hurting someone's feelings

How Abrasive

harshly
49 3.5
abrasively
6.5
bluntly
40 4.6
directly
88 1.4
politely
108 1.0

Surface Forms

abrasively positive

Morphology

abrasively = abrasive (semi-transparent) = abrade + ive + ly

Forming an adverb with -ly from the adjective 'abrasive' is a regular and transparent derivation.

Etymology

Abrasively comes from the verb abrade, which means 'to scrape or wear away', like sandpaper rubbing a surface. So when someone speaks abrasively, their words feel rough or harsh and can hurt or annoy people.