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unkindly

unkindly

4 4.4
To act in a harsh or mean way that hurts others
  • adverb
  • /ʌnˈkaɪndli/
translation icon : desconsideradamente
  • He spoke unkindly to his classmates, which hurt their feelings.
  • unkindly say
  • speak unkindly
  • treated unkindly

So if someone is behaving unkindly towards me, the course in Miracle says that in that moment, it's the wires got crossed.

Examples

  • "Do not speak unkindly of him, Commander.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • "Leave me alone maybe," he said at length, not unkindly.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • Oh, darling, you mustn't think unkindly of her.

  • One of the journalists laughed, not unkindly.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • Don't you dare to speak unkindly of him to me!

    Fiction book (2000)
  • My friends teased me, often unkindly, about my passion for studying.

    Academic text (2000)
  • Did I really act unkindly at dinner?" She chuckled lightly.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • We don't cater to pets," the woman said, not unkindly.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • "Don't make a fool of that animal," Tibby said, not unkindly.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • His father laughed, not unkindly, then grabbed a rusted bucket from the prow and dove into the rippling surrounding brownness.

    Fiction book (1996)

Synonyms

harshly
vsunkindly
49 3.5

In a severe or unkind way that feels unpleasant

is less severe and milder in tone and effect
coldly
vsunkindly
30 4.0

In a way that shows little feeling or kindness to other people

is often harsher and intentionally hurtful rather than indifferent
rudely
vsunkindly
25 1.3

In a way that is not polite and shows no respect

is less about manners and more about harshness
mercilessly
vsunkindly
22 6.4

In a way that shows no pity

is less extreme and sometimes allows milder responses
callously
vsunkindly
7 7.7

In a way that shows no care for other people's feelings

is less emotionally cold and not always without feeling
unfavorably
vsunkindly
  • US
6 5.3

In a way that shows disapproval

is more personally harsh rather than simply giving negative opinion
contemptuously
vsunkindly
4 7.5

In a way that shows you have no respect for someone or something

is less about contempt and more about simple cruelty
scornfully
vsunkindly
4 6.0

In a way that shows strong dislike and disrespect

is less focused on contempt and more on harshness
unmercifully
vsunkindly
3 7.6

In a very harsh and cruel way showing no kindness

is more moderate and may leave room for forgiveness
disdainfully
vsunkindly
3 7.3

With a look or voice that shows strong dislike and no respect

is more generally mean rather than narrowly scornful
disparagingly
vsunkindly
  • Offensive
3 7.3

In a way that shows you do not respect someone and say bad things about them

is not only belittling but can be harsher and more cruel
nastily
vsunkindly
2 5.1

In an unpleasant, angry, or mean way

is less about temper and more about deliberate meanness
hatefully
vsunkindly
1 6.6

In a way that shows strong dislike and anger

is milder and need not involve strong hostility
meanly
vsunkindly
1 7.0

In a cruel way that shows unkind feelings and hurts others

is generally not as cruel and less spiteful
shabbily
vsunkindly
1 6.8

In a mean, unkind way

is harsher in tone rather than merely ungenerous
discourteously
vsunkindly
1 6.9

In a rude or impolite way

is rougher and more emotionally hurtful rather than merely rude
scathingly
vsunkindly
1 7.9

Saying something in a very harsh and critical way

is less about formal critique and more about mean intent
uncharitably
vsunkindly
1 6.8

In a harsh and unkind way toward other people

is less about charity and more about general harshness
ungraciously
vsunkindly
1 7.1

In a rude or unfriendly way

is more actively mean rather than just lacking charm
ungently
vsunkindly
1 8.0

In a rough way that hurts or upsets someone

is more about intentional nastiness than simple roughness
cattily
vsunkindly
1 8.9

Says things in a mean, slightly cruel way to hurt someone

is less specifically about sharp remarks and more general
hurtfully
vsunkindly
1 4.1

In a way that makes someone feel sad or in pain

is broader, including coldness rather than causing direct pain
unsympathetically
vsunkindly
1 6.6

Without showing care for someone's feelings

is more actively harsh rather than merely lacking empathy
frigidly
vsunkindly
1 6.8

In a cold, unfriendly way that shows no feeling

is less about emotional distance and more about meanness
meanspiritedly
vsunkindly
  • Offensive
8.5

In a mean way that tries to hurt someone

is less focused on pettiness and more generally harsh
acrimoniously
vsunkindly
8.1

In a bitter, angry way during a disagreement

is less emotionally bitter and more generally harsh
with asperity
vsunkindly
  • Formal
9.9

In a harsh, angry way that shows someone is not happy

is less sharply critical and more broadly unpleasant
abrasively
vsunkindly
6.5

In a harsh, rude way that upsets people when speaking or acting

is less roughly offensive and more generally nasty
uncouthly
vsunkindly
8.8

In a rude, awkward way that shows little politeness

is harsher in intent, not only lacking social polish
surlily
vsunkindly
9.9

In a rude, unfriendly way

is less about mood and more about deliberate harshness
bitchily
vsunkindly
  • Offensive
9.9

In a mean, unkind way that aims to hurt someone

is broader and can be harsh without personal malice
slightingly
vsunkindly
9.9

In a way that shows little respect for someone or their work

is often more overtly hurtful rather than simply dismissive
cuttingly
vsunkindly
7.4

In a way that aims to hurt someone's feelings

is broader, not only verbal sharpness but general meanness

Antonyms

179 1.0

In a gentle and caring way

How Kindly

kindly
179 1.0
politely
108 1.0
coldly
30 4.0
unkindly
4 4.4
cruelly
16 3.0

Surface Forms

unkindly positive
unkindlier comparative
unkindliest superlative

Morphology

unkindly = unkind (transparent) = un + kind + ly

Formed by adding the adverbial suffix '-ly' to the adjective 'unkind', yielding the straightforward meaning 'in a not kind manner'.

Etymology

The word unkindly is made of un- meaning 'not', kind meaning 'nice', and -ly meaning 'in a ... way'. So unkindly means 'in a not kind or harsh way'.