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with asperity

with asperity

9.9
In a harsh, angry way that shows someone is not happy
  • idiom
  • Formal
translation icon : con aspereza
  • "You need to consider my feelings before making that comment," she said with asperity.
  • say with asperity

Examples

  • "A typical Western example," noted Dias with asperity.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • "Well," he went on with asperity, "I suppose now that you're here we'll have to find something for you to do."

    Fiction book (1990)
  • There's no toxicology," Greave said with asperity.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • "I don't appreciate your tone," he replied with asperity during the heated discussion.

  • "If you want my help, you need to ask politely," she warned him with asperity.

Synonyms

harshly
vswith asperity
49 3.5

In a severe or unkind way that feels unpleasant

is the same severity but highlights tone's sharpness
bitterly
vswith asperity
47 3.2

In a very angry or hurt way that shows strong negative feeling

focuses on harsh manner without necessarily involving strong emotion
sharply
vswith asperity
44 2.8

In a harsh, angry way when speaking to someone

expresses harshness as steady severity rather than sudden aggression
grimly
vswith asperity
27 5.5

In a serious and determined way without showing any joy

expresses harshness of tone rather than steady stern resolution
sourly
vswith asperity
4 6.4

In a way that shows anger or dislike

expresses harshness in manner rather than just showing mood
unkindly
vswith asperity
4 4.4

To act in a harsh or mean way that hurts others

stresses sharp severity and tone rather than absence of kindness
nastily
vswith asperity
2 5.1

In an unpleasant, angry, or mean way

is harsh but focuses on severity of tone rather than spite
tartly
vswith asperity
2 7.1

In a sharp, slightly angry way that can hurt people's feelings

leans more to plain severity rather than biting bitterness
scathingly
vswith asperity
1 7.9

Saying something in a very harsh and critical way

expresses harshness as manner rather than only criticism
acidly
vswith asperity
1 5.1

In a sharp, rude way that shows sarcasm

is similar yet stresses severity rather than sarcasm
acerbically
vswith asperity
1 8.1

In a sharp, hurtful way when criticizing someone

is similar but applies generally beyond direct criticism
caustically
vswith asperity
1 8.2

In a sharply critical way that can hurt someone's feelings

keeps harshness but is less about sarcasm than severity
mordantly
vswith asperity
  • Formal
1 8.8

In a sharp, often cruel way that can hurt people when joking or criticizing

is harsher in tone without focusing on clever sarcasm
bitingly
vswith asperity
1 7.4

In a very sharp and hurtful way, often about cold or criticism

is harsh too but focuses on general severity rather than intensity
ungently
vswith asperity
1 8.0

In a rough way that hurts or upsets someone

refers to harshness of manner rather than lack of physical gentleness
rankly
vswith asperity
1 7.8

In a very strong and unpleasant way that is easy to notice

is harsh in tone and severity rather than merely obviousness
astringently
vswith asperity
  • Formal
8.1

In a sharp, harsh way that shows strong criticism

focuses on manner itself rather than on resulting effect
acridly
vswith asperity
8.2

In a sharp, bitter way that hurts people with words

focuses on harshness of manner rather than sensory irritation
acrimoniously
vswith asperity
8.1

In a bitter, angry way during a disagreement

is the same harshness but not necessarily angry in tone
mordaciously
vswith asperity
  • Formal
9.9

In a very sharp and hurtful way that criticizes others

is the same harsh manner but may not attack verbally
cuttingly
vswith asperity
7.4

In a way that aims to hurt someone's feelings

is harsh in manner but not always intentionally hurtful
stingingly
vswith asperity
7.7

In a sharply critical way that hurts someone's feelings

is the same harshness but does not always cause emotional harm
vituperatively
vswith asperity
  • Offensive
9.9

To criticise someone using very harsh, insulting words

is harsh in manner but not necessarily abusive language
abrasively
vswith asperity
6.5

In a harsh, rude way that upsets people when speaking or acting

is harsher in tone rather than being physically or socially rough

Antonyms

372 1.0

To do something with little force to avoid hurting or making noise

179 1.0

In a gentle and caring way

How Harsh

harshly
49 3.5
with asperity
  • Formal
9.9
sharply
117 2.3
firmly
92 1.0
gently
372 1.0

Surface Forms

with asperity positive

Morphology

with + asperity

The phrase is a simple compositional 'with' + noun expression indicating manner; if a learner knows 'with' (expressing means/manner) and 'asperity' (severity/sharpness), they can derive 'in a harsh or severe manner'. This follows a common English pattern (e.g. 'with care', 'with anger') and is cross-linguistically transparent.

Etymology

With asperity comes from an old word that meant 'roughness', so imagine someone's words sounding like rough sandpaper. That's why it means 'in a harsh way'.