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to get on someone's nerves

to get on someone's nerves

60 4.9
To bother someone again and again until they feel angry
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
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  • She always talks loudly, and it's really starting to get on my nerves.
  • get on each other's nerves a little
  • starts to get on people's nerves
  • ever get on anyone's nerves

Examples

Synonyms

to bother
vsto get on someone's nerves
∞ 1.0

To annoy or disturb someone

is more narrowly about repeated, particularly bothersome irritation
to bother me
vsto get on someone's nerves
399 2.0

To disturb or interrupt someone and make them feel annoyed

is more focused on persistent irritation rather than general disturbance
to bug
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • Informal
229 3.7

To annoy someone by bothering them repeatedly

is the same persistent annoyance but slightly more bothersome or personal
to get to
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • Informal
222 6.3

Annoy or upset someone gradually

is more about making someone especially bothered or upset
to drive (someone) crazy
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • Informal
220 3.9

Make someone very annoyed or upset

is similar but often less about complete emotional breakdown
to annoy
vsto get on someone's nerves
144 1.0

Make someone slightly angry or bothered by small repeated actions

is similar but stresses the annoyance being particularly bothersome
to provoke
vsto get on someone's nerves
87 3.6

Annoy someone again and again to make them react

is similar but may be unintentional persistent annoyance
to irritate
vsto get on someone's nerves
57 2.9

Make someone feel annoyed or impatient, often by repeated small actions

is the same idea but highlights being notably bothersome
to get at
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • Informal
52 7.1

To annoy someone with small repeated actions

is similar but often carries a stronger sense of being bothered
to push someone's buttons
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • Informal
46 7.1

To do or say something on purpose to annoy someone

is similar but can be accidental or not intentionally provocative
to drive someone crazy
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • Informal
46 3.2

Make someone very annoyed or upset

is similar but often implies ongoing, bothersome irritation rather than extreme upset
to pester
vsto get on someone's nerves
32 3.2

To annoy someone by asking for things again and again

is similar but covers many kinds of persistent bother beyond requests
to antagonize
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • US
28 7.6

To make someone angry or unfriendly

is more about repeated annoyance rather than creating hostility
to irk
vsto get on someone's nerves
24 6.3

Make someone feel annoyed

is more focused on repeated or especially annoying actions
to rile
vsto get on someone's nerves
22 6.9

Make someone annoyed, often by small things

is alike but often stronger and more persistent in effect
to aggravate
vsto get on someone's nerves
15 4.2

Annoy someone and make them angrier

is similar but may be slightly less intense or resentful
to get a rise out of
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • Informal
10 6.8

Make someone angry or annoyed on purpose by teasing them

is often unintentional and highlights ongoing bother rather than tricking a reaction
to grate
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • Informal
9 6.7

Annoy someone more and more over time

is like this but often feels more personal and direct
to get someone's goat
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • Informal
8 8.4

To annoy someone or make them angry

is about ongoing, repeated annoyance rather than a single provocation
to gall
vsto get on someone's nerves
6 7.1

To annoy someone deeply

is like this but usually used for repeated, nagging annoyances
to raise hackles
vsto get on someone's nerves
3 7.9

To make someone angry or upset

is more about steady annoyance that bothers someone privately
to give someone the shits
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • Offensive
3 9.9

To make someone very annoyed or angry

is comparable but used more widely and less coarse
to exasperate
vsto get on someone's nerves
2 5.9

Make someone very annoyed by doing the same thing again and again

is similar but often used for ongoing, personally irritating behaviour
to get someone's back up
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • UK
2 7.9

To annoy someone or make them feel defensive

is broader and covers persistent annoyance beyond criticism
to peeve
vsto get on someone's nerves
1 6.8

To make someone feel annoyed

is similar but usually more continuous and personally troubling
to miff
vsto get on someone's nerves
1 8.0

To make someone feel slightly annoyed

is similar but usually implies a more persistent or bothersome feeling
to get under one's skin
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • Informal
1 7.2

To annoy someone again and again so they feel bothered

is similar but often implies more frequent small annoyances
to get one's dander up
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • Informal
1 9.1

To make someone angry

is similar but focuses more on repeated bothering rather than anger alone
to get on someone's wick
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • UK
1 9.9

To annoy someone by doing the same small things again and again

is the everyday expression for ongoing, bothersome irritation
to put up someone's back
vsto get on someone's nerves
  • UK
8.9

To annoy someone so they become defensive

is more general and includes persistent, everyday irritation

Antonyms

∞ 1.0

Make a person or animal less upset

372 1.0

To make someone happy or satisfied

How Annoying

to drive someone crazy
  • Informal
46 3.2
to get on someone's nerves
  • Informal
60 4.9
to annoy
144 1.0
to bother
∞ 1.0

Surface Forms

Morphology

get + on + someone's + nerves

The phrase literally suggests affecting someone’s 'nerves' and thus causing discomfort, so a learner who knows 'get', 'on' and 'nerves' can often infer it means to bother or irritate someone. However, the use of 'nerves' as a metaphor for patience/peace of mind and the fixed phrase 'get on someone's nerves' make the connection partially idiomatic rather than purely compositional, so prior exposure helps solidify the exact meaning and usage.

Etymology

Get on someone's nerves may come from a simple image: imagine someone keeps pressing a very sensitive spot in your body — the nerves — so you feel bothered and tense. So when someone gets on your nerves today, it means 'to annoy or irritate'.