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to discomfit

to discomfit

2 8.4
To make someone feel uncomfortable, confused, or embarrassed
  • verb
  • /dɪsˈkʌmfɪt/
  • Formal
: desconcertar
  • His look seemed to discomfit her.

Examples

  • The unexpected compliment from her boss discomfited her, causing her to blush.

  • Several factors have served to discomfit the electorate.

    Academic text (1991)
  • Sounds like JREF was deliberately trying to discomfit Amy.

    Blog text (29)
  • But she had told no one because she didn't wish to defame or discomfit the man in any way.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • Some of the men seemed to go out of their way to devise ribald lyrics to discomfit me.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • The sudden question from the audience seemed to discomfit the speaker, leaving him momentarily speechless.

  • His harsh criticism was meant to help, but it only served to discomfit the young artist.

Synonyms

to upset
vsto discomfit
273 1.0

Make someone feel sad or worried

is more about causing social embarrassment and composure loss, not just unhappiness
to disturb
vsto discomfit
42 2.5

Make someone feel deeply worried or upset

is typically milder, focusing on unease and embarrassment rather than deep disturbance
to weird out
vsto discomfit
  • Informal
22 8.4

Make someone feel strange or uncomfortable

is a neutral, more formal expression for the same unsettled feeling
to unsettle
vsto discomfit
20 4.9

To make someone feel worried or uneasy

is more about personal confusion or embarrassment, not just general insecurity
to unnerve
vsto discomfit
9 6.3

To make someone feel nervous and less confident

often causes embarrassment or visible composure loss rather than only reduced confidence
to disorient
vsto discomfit
7 5.2

To make a person feel confused about where they are or what to do

is about emotional unease and embarrassment rather than spatial confusion
to dismay
vsto discomfit
4 4.4

Make someone feel shocked or worried by something unexpected

is milder, causing unease or embarrassment rather than shocked distress
to disorientate
vsto discomfit
  • UK
3 5.7

To make someone lose their sense of direction or feel confused

focuses on emotional unsettlement, not physical or directional disorientation
to discombobulate
vsto discomfit
  • Informal
2 9.9

To confuse someone so they cannot think clearly

is broader, affecting feelings and composure rather than only thinking clarity
to discomfort
vsto discomfit
1 4.3

To make someone feel uneasy or anxious

usually causes visible loss of composure or embarrassment rather than mild unease
to perturb
vsto discomfit
1 7.0

To make someone feel worried or uneasy

often implies losing composure or embarrassment as results rather than mere anxiety
to disconcert
vsto discomfit
1 7.1

To make someone feel uncomfortable or embarrassed

is used more broadly for general unsettlement and loss of self control
to disquiet
vsto discomfit
1 7.3

To make someone feel worried or uneasy

adds an aspect of confusion or embarrassment leading to composure loss
to confuse
vsto discomfit
1 2.4

Make someone feel embarrassed or uncomfortable by surprising them

includes losing composure in wider situations, not only from sudden attention
to discompose
vsto discomfit
1 9.1

To make someone feel nervous

focuses more on causing confusion or embarrassment than only composure loss
to chagrin
vsto discomfit
1 8.0

To make someone feel embarrassed or disappointed

is more general, unsettling people not only after failures or setbacks
to unfix
vsto discomfit
9.1

Make someone feel upset and unable to think clearly

is about milder unease or embarrassment rather than deep destabilization
to untune
vsto discomfit
  • Archaic
8.9

To make someone lose their calm and feel upset

also covers feeling confused or embarrassed, not only instability
to consternate
vsto discomfit
  • Archaic
9.9

To make someone feel sudden shock and worry

is less about sudden shock and more about general embarrassment or unsettlement

Antonyms

172 1.0

To make someone feel less upset or in pain

123 3.4

To make someone feel less worried and more confident

How Unsettled

to humiliate
  • Offensive
208 6.1
to unsettle
20 4.9
to discomfit
  • Formal
2 8.4
to embarrass
391 2.1

Surface Forms

discomfit infinitive
discomfited past participle
discomfiting present participle
discomfits third person singular

Morphology

discomfit = comfit (opaque) = dis + comfit

Although the form can be segmented as 'dis-' + 'comfit', the modern meaning 'to embarrass or unsettle' cannot be predicted from 'comfit' (a sweet) and the sense has drifted, so the derivation is not useful for learners.

Etymology

Discomfit comes from old French words that meant 'to defeat', with dis- meaning 'not' or 'undo' and comfit originally meaning 'to make or finish'. So to discomfit someone today is to 'undo' their calm or confidence — to embarrass or unsettle them.