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to simmer down

to simmer down

14 4.1
To become calm after strong feelings or to tell someone else to calm down
  • phrasal verb
  • /ˈsɪmər daʊn/
  • Informal
: calmarse
  • When tempers flared during the meeting, the manager urged everyone to simmer down so they could find a solution.
  • let things simmer down
  • just simmer down
  • simmer down now

I know the accent is sexy, but just simmer down, Simmer down.

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Examples

Synonyms

to relax
vsto simmer down
∞ 1.0

To feel less nervous and more calm

aims at calming anger or upset rather than general rest
to calm
vsto simmer down
∞ 1.0

Make a person or animal less upset

focuses more on reducing anger or excitement specifically
to calm down
vsto simmer down
  • Informal
989 1.4

To become less angry, excited, or upset

suggests a gentle return to calm rather than only quick control
to settle
vsto simmer down
729 2.8

To become calm and still after movement or excitement

focuses more on cooling anger or upset than on general stability
to settle down
vsto simmer down
166 2.5

To become quiet and calm after being excited

emphasizes calming emotions after anger or excitement specifically
to chill out
vsto simmer down
  • Informal
138 4.9

To relax and become calm after you feel upset

centres on reducing anger or upset rather than general relaxation
to cool off
vsto simmer down
105 2.7

To become calmer, less angry, or less hot

urges a person to calm their anger or excitement gently
to loosen up
vsto simmer down
  • Informal
86 3.4

To relax and become less nervous or tense

is about becoming less angry or upset rather than just less tense
to ease up
vsto simmer down
59 3.7

To make something less strong or strict

targets lowering emotional arousal rather than easing external pressure
to cool down
vsto simmer down
  • Informal
58 2.5

Feel less angry or excited

asks someone to become less angry or upset rather than stay excited
to cool it
vsto simmer down
  • Informal
55 6.2

To calm down and stop being angry or excited

is used to ask for a general return to calmer emotions
to quiet down
vsto simmer down
  • Informal
54 2.0

Make people or things less noisy and less active

focuses on lowering emotional upset rather than reducing noise
to unwind
vsto simmer down
43 3.4

Become relaxed and less tense after work or a stressful time

is used when asking someone to lower anger or upset quickly
to play it cool
vsto simmer down
  • Informal
32 4.5

Act calm and relaxed to hide nervousness

asks for a reduction of anger or excitement, not strategic composure
to get a grip
vsto simmer down
  • Informal
24 5.6

To calm down and control your feelings

is softer, asking for reduced anger rather than firm control
to mellow out
vsto simmer down
  • Informal
22 6.3

Become more relaxed and easygoing

asks specifically to lower anger or excitement rather than mood shift
to ease off
vsto simmer down
19 4.0

To become gradually less strong or severe

refers specifically to lowering anger or upset rather than general intensity
to chillax
vsto simmer down
  • Slang
4 8.6

Calm down and relax after feeling stressed or excited

targets easing anger or upset not just casual relaxation
to quieten
vsto simmer down
3 4.6

Make someone or something less noisy and calmer

concerns calming feelings and anger rather than only sound levels
to recompose
vsto simmer down
1 5.7

Make yourself calm again after being upset

is about becoming less angry or upset rather than full composure
to keep one's cool
vsto simmer down
  • Informal
1 3.4

Stay calm and control your feelings when things are hard

asks for a move from excitement or anger into calmer state

Antonyms

48 4.8

To feel very angry and unable to control it

14 4.8

To make people feel strongly excited or upset

How Calm

to compose
17 4.7
to settle down
166 2.5
to calm down
  • Informal
989 1.4
to simmer down
  • Informal
14 4.1
to cool off
105 2.7

Surface Forms

simmer down infinitive
simmered down past participle
simmering down present participle
simmers down third person singular

Morphology

simmer + down

The literal verbs 'simmer' (gentle, low heat) and 'down' (to a lower level) together suggest a reduction in intensity, so a learner could plausibly infer a meaning like 'become less intense' for emotions. However, the emotional/metaphorical extension of 'simmer' from cooking to anger is not fully transparent to an average B1 learner without prior exposure, so the relation is partially but not wholly predictable.

Etymology

Simmer down comes from cooking. When a pot simmers it makes small bubbles and becomes calm as the heat goes down, so telling someone to simmer down means 'become calm' or 'stop being angry'.