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to put down

to put down

55 4.9
To make someone feel unimportant by saying bad things about them
  • phrasal verb
  • /pʊt daʊn/
  • Offensive
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  • My folks were always putting him down
  • put down people
  • try to put someone down
  • always putting people down

They seem to put themselves down, but not really.

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Examples

  • Most of the guys I know, they put their wives down all the time.

  • So instead of putting yourself down, lift yourself up.

  • People who have strength will try to put somebody down always.

  • No, now I just feel bad knowing that, you know, knowing that people are putting down your sister.

  • I have every right to put you down.

  • Why do you put me down?

  • I like people, but I hate being put down by anyone.

    Academic text (1998)
  • I'm not here to put you down.

  • I'm not putting him down; I just have a commitment to the truth.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • It's sad to see how some people always need to put down others to feel better about themselves.

Synonyms

to take down
vsto put down
  • Informal
144 5.1

To say cruel things to make people think less of someone

is similar but more about personal belittling than formal undermining
to degrade
vsto put down
55 5.1

To treat someone so they feel ashamed or less respected

is usually a spoken, unfair criticism aiming to make someone feel small
to demean
vsto put down
53 6.8

To make someone feel less respected or important

is specifically about verbal belittling rather than broader acts
to denigrate
vsto put down
48 7.8

To say bad things about someone without a good reason to make them seem less important

focuses on belittling someone personally rather than only damaging reputation
to belittle
vsto put down
45 5.0

To make someone or something seem not important

often happens unfairly and through speech rather than actions
to disparage
vsto put down
28 7.7

To speak badly about someone or something to show little respect

is similar but often stresses unfairness and personal diminution
to talk down to
vsto put down
  • Offensive
15 6.6

Speak to someone as if they are less smart or important

is similar but wider, including unfair criticism not only patronizing tone
to talk down
vsto put down
  • Offensive
14 6.7

To speak to someone as if they are less smart or less important

often belittles by hostile or unfair criticism rather than only patronizing speech
to put in one's place
vsto put down
  • Informal
9 7.2

Make someone feel ashamed or less important by showing your power

is less about asserting authority and more about casual unfair criticism
to knock down a peg
vsto put down
  • Informal
3 7.6

Make someone feel less proud by criticizing or embarrassing them

aims more at making someone feel unimportant rather than just lowering pride
to do down
vsto put down
  • Offensive
3 8.6

To say bad things about someone to make them look worse

is the same idea but often done informally in conversation
to derogate
vsto put down
1 8.4

Say or do things that make someone seem less respected

is closer to casual verbal belittling rather than formal derogation
to cry down
vsto put down
1 7.1

To speak badly about someone or something in public

is similar but can happen privately as well as publicly
to cut others down
vsto put down
  • Offensive
7.0

To say things that make other people feel small

is about making someone feel unimportant usually in personal speech
to put a slight upon
vsto put down
  • Offensive
9.1

To show disrespect to someone by making them feel unimportant

is focused on verbal belittling rather than a general insult or disdain

Antonyms

2.3

Give someone support and confidence so they try or keep doing something

161 1.0

Words or actions that show admiration for someone

How Insulting

to humiliate
  • Offensive
414 6.1
to put down
  • Offensive
55 4.9
to mock
  • Offensive
209 3.4
to make fun of
  • Offensive
307 2.3
tease
17 4.0

Surface Forms

put down infinitive
put down past
put down past participle
putting down present participle
puts down third person singular

Morphology

put + down

The sense of lowering someone (put = place; down = lower/low) gives a clear metaphorical route from the literal constituents to the idiomatic meaning of belittling, so learners who know both words can often infer the general idea. However, the shift from a physical action to a social/ evaluative meaning (criticize or demean) is a metaphorical extension and not strictly compositional or fully predictable, so it is only partially transparent to B1 learners.

Etymology

Put down This sense likely comes from the picture of pushing someone lower so they seem smaller: put (place) and down (lower), which becomes a way to make someone feel less important. That's why it now means 'to criticize or belittle someone'.