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to talk down

to talk down

14 6.7
To speak to someone as if they are less smart or less important
  • phrasal verb
  • /tɔk daʊn/
  • Offensive
translation icon : hablar con condescendencia
  • She tends to talk down to her colleagues during meetings, which makes them feel undervalued.
  • talk down to kids
  • talks down to people
  • talk down to its audience

It's because I talk to people, not down to them.

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Examples

  • I never did talk down to my girls the way some grown-up folks do with children.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • Today I, once again, allowed a professional to talk down to me.

    Blog text (19)
  • We're doing important stuff here, you know, and you talk down to people and you.

  • I think young people are seeing that that kind of talking down to people from a position of power.

  • One never got the sense that he was talking down to you.

    Blog text (27)
  • Do some research and stop trying to talk down to others.

    Blog text (8)
  • But when he was drinking, he would talk down to my mother, and I hated him for it.

  • I am asking very nicely to please stop talking down to me like that.

    Blog text (20)
  • If you continue talking down to me, I'm going to start returning the favor.

    Blog text (5)
  • I recommend that the one thing we don't do to potential voters is talk down to them.

    Blog text (4)

Synonyms

to put down
vsto talk down
  • Offensive
55 4.9

To make someone feel unimportant by saying bad things about them

is more about speaking as if someone is less intelligent or important
to look down on
vsto talk down
  • Offensive
53 3.7

Think you are better than someone and treat them as less important

is specifically about speaking in a belittling patronizing manner
to demean
vsto talk down
53 6.8

To make someone feel less respected or important

focuses mainly on speech that shows inferiority of intellect or status
to patronize
vsto talk down
  • Offensive
52 7.0

To treat someone as if you are better or smarter than them

focuses more on speaking as superior rather than broader behaviour
to belittle
vsto talk down
45 5.0

To make someone or something seem not important

specifically implies speaking as superior not just reducing value
to talk down to
vsto talk down
  • Offensive
15 6.6

Speak to someone as if they are less smart or important

has identical meaning but is a common alternative phrasing
to condescend
vsto talk down
7 7.8

To act as if you are better than other people and make them feel small

emphasizes speaking down specifically, not general superior behaviour
to knock down a peg
vsto talk down
  • Informal
3 7.6

Make someone feel less proud by criticizing or embarrassing them

is about speaking as if someone is less intelligent or important rather than punishment
to do down
vsto talk down
  • Offensive
3 8.6

To say bad things about someone to make them look worse

focuses on speaking as if someone is less intelligent or important
8.3

Talk to someone in a way that shows you feel better than them

expresses direct belittling as if the other is inferior
to cut others down
vsto talk down
  • Offensive
7.0

To say things that make other people feel small

is more about speaking as if someone is inferior rather than general attacks

Antonyms

532 2.8

A particular part or detail of something

23 3.2

To make someone feel happier and more hopeful

How Condescending

to demean
53 6.8
to patronize
  • Offensive
52 7.0
to talk down
  • Offensive
14 6.7
to belittle
45 5.0
to insult
  • Offensive
543 2.1

Surface Forms

talk down infinitive
talked down past participle
talking down present participle
talks down third person singular

Morphology

talk + down

There is a clear link between 'talk' (speak) and 'down' (lower), so the idea of using speech to cause or guide a descent is partially derivable; however, the specific technical sense of directing an aircraft's landing by radio is specialised and not fully predictable for a B1 learner. Additionally, the verb 'talk down' has other idiomatic senses (e.g. persuade someone not to jump; speak condescendingly), which increases ambiguity and means prior exposure or context is typically required.

Etymology

Talk down comes from the image of a person speaking from above, with the talk going down to someone lower, so the words feel belittling. That's why it means 'to treat someone as less important'.