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to condescend

to condescend

7 7.8
To act as if you are better than other people and make them feel small
  • verb
  • /ˌkɒndɪˈsɛnd/
translation icon : tratar con condescendencia
  • You have a Benelli pointed at your forehead and you still have the audacity to condescend to me.

We see them without the, you know, those, they don't condescend.

Examples

  • Don't condescend to me.

  • I would be happy with an animated series so long as it doesn't condescend to its audience.

    Blog text (8)
  • Oh, no, but you would never condescend to such a marriage.

  • You leave a trail of misery like that, and then you dare to condescend to me?

  • You don't have to condescend to me.

  • Don't you condescend to me.

  • "Don't condescend to me, jade."

    Fiction book (1999)
  • I don't like the way he condescends to me either.

  • I've been watching you lecture and condescend to Ophelia on her own blog for at least fifteen minutes now.

    Blog text (29)
  • It's frustrating when people condescend to others as if they are more important.

Synonyms

to look down on
vsto condescend
  • Offensive
53 3.7

Think you are better than someone and treat them as less important

is similar but focuses more on patronizing manner than contempt
to demean
vsto condescend
53 6.8

To make someone feel less respected or important

is about showing superiority rather than directly removing dignity
to patronize
vsto condescend
  • Offensive
52 7.0

To treat someone as if you are better or smarter than them

is broader, covering any acting superior attitude not only speech
to talk down to
vsto condescend
  • Offensive
15 6.6

Speak to someone as if they are less smart or important

is the broader action of acting superior beyond spoken words
to talk down
vsto condescend
  • Offensive
14 6.7

To speak to someone as if they are less smart or less important

is similar but covers all ways of acting superior, not only speech
to condescend to
vsto condescend
7 8.2

Treat someone as if you are better than them

is the same behaviour expressed as a verb plus preposition form
to act superior
vsto condescend
1 6.7

Behave as if you are better than other people

is about that superior attitude but can be less domineering
to derogate
vsto condescend
1 8.4

Say or do things that make someone seem less respected

is closer to an attitude of superiority than formal belittling
to speak with condescension
vsto condescend
8.3

Talk to someone in a way that shows you feel better than them

is the general attitude that can occur in speech or behaviour
to matronize
vsto condescend
  • US
9.9

To act like someone is less able in a motherly way

is the general superiority behaviour without the motherly tone

Phrasal Verbs

Treat someone as if you are better than them

How Condescending

to belittle
45 5.0
to condescend
7 7.8
to talk down to
  • Offensive
15 6.6
to patronize
  • Offensive
52 7.0
to dismiss
332 3.0

Surface Forms

condescend infinitive
condescended past participle
condescending present participle
condescends third person singular

Morphology

condescend = descend (semi-transparent) = con + descend

The morphological parts signal 'lowering' (descend → stoop), which helps but does not directly specify the modern sense of 'patronize'; the meaning is a pragmatic extension from 'stoop' to a condescending attitude.

Etymology

Condescend comes from the Latin parts con- and descend, which mean 'together' and 'to go down', as in descend when you 'go down' the stairs. So, to condescend in this sense is to act like you are above someone — to 'look down' on them and treat them as if they are less important.