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to patronize

to patronize

52 7.0
To treat someone as if you are better or smarter than them
  • verb
  • /ˈpeɪtrəˌnaɪz/
  • Offensive
translation icon : tratar con condescendencia
  • He felt that the manager tended to patronize his team, undermining their confidence in their abilities.
  • patronize older people

No Bravo lines, you patronizing Canadian.

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Examples

  • Counselors must be careful to avoid communication that appears to be condescending or patronizing.

    Academic text (2004)
  • And one of the common mistakes that you know younger writers make is that they patronize the audience by explaining too much.

  • Bottom line, don't patronize kids, you know?

  • Please don't patronize me, sir.

  • Oh, don't patronize me, James.

  • Mr. Graham, I am not patronizing you.

  • A nurse who speaks too slowly will run the risk of sounding patronizing.

    Academic text (2011)
  • Please don't patronize me.

  • Older people dislike being patronized, so they should discourage this behavior in peers too.

    Academic text (1993)
  • In addition, they found the overtures of some "liberal" English speakers patronizing and overbearing.

    Academic text (2004)

Synonyms

to look down on
vsto patronize
  • Offensive
53 3.7

Think you are better than someone and treat them as less important

expresses the same attitude but can appear in many specific actions
to demean
vsto patronize
53 6.8

To make someone feel less respected or important

is more about the attitude of superiority rather than the result only
to talk down to
vsto patronize
  • Offensive
15 6.6

Speak to someone as if they are less smart or important

includes that speaking style but also other ways of treating people
to talk down
vsto patronize
  • Offensive
14 6.7

To speak to someone as if they are less smart or less important

is the general pattern of treating others as less, not only speech
to condescend
vsto patronize
7 7.8

To act as if you are better than other people and make them feel small

focuses on showing superiority through treatment rather than just attitude
to condescend to
vsto patronize
7 8.2

Treat someone as if you are better than them

is about treating others that way not only through words
to derogate
vsto patronize
1 8.4

Say or do things that make someone seem less respected

covers treating someone as inferior rather than only reducing respect
8.3

Talk to someone in a way that shows you feel better than them

covers that speech and also broader nonverbal treatment
belittling
vsto patronize
6.2

Showing that someone or something has little value

focuses more on showing superiority over a person rather than general criticism
belittled
vsto patronize
5.6

Made to seem less important or less valued by other people

describes the act of treating someone as inferior rather than its result
to matronize
vsto patronize
  • US
9.9

To act like someone is less able in a motherly way

is similar but without the specific motherly or overly caring tone

How Condescending

to humiliate
  • Offensive
414 6.1
to demean
53 6.8
to belittle
45 5.0
to patronize
  • Offensive
52 7.0
to talk down to
  • Offensive
15 6.6

Surface Forms

patronize infinitive
patronized past
patronized past participle
patronizing present participle
patronizes third person singular

Morphology

patronize = patron (semi-transparent) = patron + ize

The condescending sense is a metaphorical extension from the social relation implied by 'patron' and is not a literal, predictable result of adding '-ize'.

Etymology

Patronize comes from patron, originally a 'father' or 'protector' who stood above others, and that idea could sound like looking down on people. So to patronize someone today is to treat them as if you are more important or clever than they are.