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to condescend

to condescend

3 8.1
To do something you think is below you but do it anyway
  • verb
  • /ˌkɒndɪˈsɛnd/
translation icon : condescender
  • Mr. Rawlings condescended to answer.

Examples

  • On nights when she couldn't find her own fun, she used to condescend to ride around with them, listen to their eight-track tapes, and drink their Coors.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • But how good of you, a nobleman of the highest rank... to condescend to tell all this to me, a mere strolling minstrel.

  • Perhaps you, Doctor, would condescend to take over?

  • - It is very good of Mr Fielding to condescend to visit our friend.

  • I don't mean to condescend, but I actually feel sorry for you.

    Blog text (25)
  • - It's about time you condescended to make an appearance.

  • In those days, however, allowing a son to go abroad for an education was something that no Chinese family of any standing would condescend to do.

    Academic text (1992)
  • My nephew, Miss Austen, condescends far indeed in offering to the daughter of an obscure and impecunious clergyman.

  • He refused to condescend to the opinions of his subordinates during the meeting.

  • After years of success, she finally decided to condescend to join the charity event.

Synonyms

to look down on
vsto condescend
  • Offensive
53 3.7

Think you are better than someone and treat them as less important

is focused on acting from superiority while also lowering oneself by action
to patronize
vsto condescend
  • Offensive
52 7.0

To treat someone as if you are better or smarter than them

is about doing acts seen as beneath dignity often with superiority
to talk down to
vsto condescend
  • Offensive
15 6.6

Speak to someone as if they are less smart or important

is about behaving or acting in a way seen as beneath dignity rather than only speaking
to talk down
vsto condescend
  • Offensive
14 6.7

To speak to someone as if they are less smart or less important

is similar but covers actions done from a superior attitude
to stoop
vsto condescend
11 8.1

To lower yourself by doing something you think is wrong

is about acting beneath dignity often due to superiority, not moral failure
to descend
vsto condescend
9 7.4

Do something you think is beneath your dignity

adds a stronger sense of superiority when choosing to do that action
to deign
vsto condescend
  • Formal
7 9.5

To do something someone thinks is below them, usually unwillingly

is similar but often stresses a sense of superiority rather than reluctance
to condescend to
vsto condescend
7 8.2

Treat someone as if you are better than them

is about doing an act seen as beneath one's dignity rather than only behavior
to lord it over
vsto condescend
  • Informal
6 8.2

Act as if you are better than other people

is about performing an act seen as beneath dignity often with superiority
to be a snob
vsto condescend
  • Offensive
4 7.5

To act as if you are better than other people because of your money or taste

is about a specific act done from a sense of personal superiority
to lower oneself
vsto condescend
  • Informal
4 6.5

Act in a way that makes people respect you less

is similar but often includes a conscious feeling of being superior
to act superior
vsto condescend
1 6.7

Behave as if you are better than other people

is similar but stresses doing something viewed as beneath personal dignity
to speak with condescension
vsto condescend
8.3

Talk to someone in a way that shows you feel better than them

is about lowering oneself by action rather than using superior speech
to matronize
vsto condescend
  • US
9.9

To act like someone is less able in a motherly way

is broader, applying to any act done from a feeling of superiority

Phrasal Verbs

Treat someone as if you are better than them

How Condescending

to demean
53 6.8
to belittle
45 5.0
to condescend
3 8.1
to patronize
  • Offensive
52 7.0
to dismiss
332 3.0

Surface Forms

condescend infinitive
condescended past participle
condescending present participle
condescends third person singular

Morphology

condescend = descend (opaque) = con + descend

The meaning of 'condescend' involves a sense of superiority, which is not evident from the base word 'descend' and prefix 'con-'.

Etymology

Condescend comes from the Latin parts con- and descend, which mean 'together' and 'to go down', like descend when you 'go down' the stairs. So, to condescend in this sense is to 'lower' yourself to do something you think is beneath your dignity.