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to refrain

to refrain

81 4.2
Choose not to do something you want to do
  • verb
  • /rɪˈfreɪn/
: abstenerse de
  • To maintain a peaceful environment, please refrain from talking during the performance.
  • refrain from making
  • refrain from using
  • asked to refrain

In apprehending it, we must refrain from trying to comprehend it.

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Examples

  • The counselor should ask the most relevant questions and refrain from asking too many personal questions.

    Academic text (1999)
  • Class, I know these look like mushrooms, but refrain from eating them.

  • So I just please ask that you refrain from giving medical advice in this video.

  • And I'll refrain from saying who else I think is guilty in this.

  • We refrain from religious items and discussion at all times.

  • I must admit that I, too, could not refrain from taking a second look.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • Should I refrain from judging that?

  • Please refrain from charging any mobile phones or devices.

  • Ladies and gentlemen, with courtesy to the players... please refrain from excessive noise... and throwing anything onto the field.

  • Detective Fuller, I'd appreciate it if you'd refrain from comments like that in my presence.

Synonyms

to avoid
vsto refrain
∞ 1.0

To stay away from something or not do it to stop something bad from happening

is deliberate abstention but often stresses prevention motive
to stay away
vsto refrain
711 1.6

Keep a distance from people or things you want to avoid

is deliberate avoidance covering actions and choices not only distance
to stay away from
vsto refrain
570 2.3

Avoid going near people or places for safety

is deliberate avoidance not limited to physical distance or safety reasons
to keep off
vsto refrain
278 2.4

To stay away from a place, person, or thing

is deliberate avoidance focused on actions rather than physical distance
to stay out of it
vsto refrain
66 3.8

To avoid getting involved in an argument or fight

is deliberate avoidance generalised beyond noninvolvement to other acts
to turn away from
vsto refrain
65 3.7

To refuse to have anything to do with someone or something

is deliberate avoidance without implying rejection or refusal
to suppress
vsto refrain
48 5.8

To hold back feelings or reactions

is deliberate avoidance of actions rather than inward control of feelings
to abstain
vsto refrain
29 5.0

To choose not to take something, often for health or religious reasons

is the general deliberate act of not doing something
to evade
vsto refrain
29 3.9

To avoid doing something you should do, for example a duty or a direct question

is deliberate refusal to act without focus on trickiness or dodging
to eschew
vsto refrain
  • Formal
23 8.9

To avoid something on purpose

is the neutral everyday term for deliberate avoidance
to forbear
vsto refrain
  • Formal
5 8.1

Stop yourself from doing or saying something when you feel tempted

is a plain deliberate avoidance without emphasis on patience

Antonyms

819 2.5

To join in an activity with other people

745 1.0

Take action to deal with a problem or situation

65 4.1

To let someone have whatever they want, often too much

How Restrained

to abstain
29 5.0
to forgo
30 6.3
to refrain
81 4.2
to resist
224 2.5
to hold back
86 4.2
to hesitate
301 2.5

Surface Forms

refrain infinitive
refrained past
refrained past participle
refraining present participle
refrains third person singular

Etymology

The word refrain as a verb comes from the idea of holding back, like pulling a horse's rein to stop it. So, to refrain is to 'hold back' or avoid doing something.