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to forbear

to forbear

3 8.1
Stop yourself from doing or saying something when you feel tempted
  • verb
  • /fɔrˈbɛr/
  • Formal
translation icon : abstenerse
  • She decided to forbear from commenting on the situation, respecting everyone's feelings.

Examples

  • "No," said Ennis, forbearing to ask whose fault that was.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • Despite his anger, he chose to forbear and not retaliate against the insults.

  • And yet, sir, I cannot forbear to offer some objections against it.

  • Let us forbear from extreme statements.

    Academic text (2001)
  • International law also requires giving the aggressor state a chance to forbear.

    Academic text (2017)
  • You can forbear credit cards, car loans, mortgages, and student loans.

    Blog text (2)
  • I may be a bit too good of a shot, and there may be some who try to construe that against my character, which efforts I generally choose to forbear.

  • But I cannot forbear applauding the humanity of the Turks to these.

    Academic text (2008)
  • I've been forbearing, Quinn, but if you shirk this, my forbearance ends.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • I will forbear from expressing my opinion during the meeting to keep the peace.

Synonyms

to hold back
vsto forbear
108 4.2

Keep yourself from showing feelings or telling others

is broader and applies to patient restraint of speech or action
to refrain
vsto forbear
87 4.2

Choose not to do something you want to do

is about patience and self control when resisting an impulse
to forgo
vsto forbear
30 6.3

Decide not to have or do something you want

involves self control and patience rather than a simple decision
to forswear
vsto forbear
  • Formal
2 9.6

To promise to give up a belief, habit, or practice

is private restraint by patience not a public formal pledge

Antonyms

1.0

Take action to deal with a problem or situation

68 4.3

To allow yourself to enjoy something pleasant, often more than needed

How Restrained

to abstain
18 5.0
to forbear
  • Formal
3 8.1
to refrain
87 4.2
to hold back
108 4.2

Surface Forms

forbear infinitive
forbearing present participle
forbears third person singular
forbore past
forborne past participle

Etymology

Forbear comes from the parts for- 'away' and bear 'to endure', so imagine keeping something away from yourself or holding it back. That's why to forbear means to refrain or show patience instead of doing or saying something.