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to push people away

to push people away

8 5.6
Act in a way that makes other people avoid you
  • phrasal verb
translation icon : alejar a la gente
  • She realized that her harsh words would only push people away when she needed them most.

Number one, we run the risk of pushing people away when we over share.

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Examples

  • I push people away by my intolerance of their flaws.

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  • Social media sites are more for friendly encounters, and using marketing talk will push people away.

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  • Why do I push people away when they get close?

  • My problem is I push people away and then hate them for leaving.

  • Number one, we run the risk of pushing people away when we over share.

  • You can't keep pushing people away.

  • Zoe, stop pushing people away.

  • I push people away.

  • Blaming natural disasters on people not only creates tension and feelings of anger, but actively pushes people away from your cause!

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  • I often push people away without meaning to, making it hard to keep friends.

Synonyms

to alienate
vsto push people away
123 6.7

To make someone feel alone and lose support from others

causes social distance often as an unintended result
to drive away
vsto push people away
71 3.4

To force a person, animal, or feeling to go away

makes others avoid you more subtly and often unintentionally
to scare away
vsto push people away
47 2.5

Make a person or animal go away because they are afraid

leads people to avoid you without frightening them
to put off
vsto push people away
22 3.7

Make someone not want to do something

causes others to avoid you often without intending to do so
to repel
vsto push people away
21 4.2

Make someone or something move back and stay away, often by using force

creates social distance usually without using active force
to repulse
vsto push people away
7 7.0

To make someone or something go away

causes avoidance more by awkward behaviour than intense disgust
to estrange
vsto push people away
  • Formal
2 7.5

Make someone feel distant from family or friends

produces distance usually without deliberate action
to disaffect
vsto push people away
  • Formal
1 8.3

To make someone stop feeling loyal to a leader or group

causes people to avoid you often without meaning to

Antonyms

991 1.9

Make people notice or want something

583 1.0

Greet someone in a friendly way when they arrive

How Alienating

to ostracize
  • US
31 7.7
to alienate
123 6.7
to push people away
8 5.6
to ignore
1.0

Surface Forms

push people away infinitive
pushed people away past participle
pushing people away present participle
pushes people away third person singular

Morphology

push + people + away

The meaning 'to cause others to distance themselves' is directly inferable from the literal constituents 'push' + 'people' + 'away' — a straightforward extension of physical pushing to social behavior. This compositional, cross-linguistically common metaphor makes the expression readily understandable to a B1 learner who knows the component words.

Etymology

Push people away comes from the simple picture of physically pushing someone so they move away from you. So it means 'to make others avoid you or keep their distance', often without meaning to.