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to estrange

to estrange

2 7.5
Make someone feel distant from family or friends
  • verb
  • /ɪˈstreɪndʒ/
  • Formal
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  • The long absence caused him to estrange himself from his old friends.

Some of them completely estranged from church doctrine or governance.

Examples

  • We estrange ourselves from work by asking it to satisfy our needs instead of engaging it for its own noble ends.

    Academic text (1993)
  • Doesn't this estrange young people from one another?

    Academic text (2007)
  • Their relations ultimately further estrange him from his Jewish wife.

    Academic text (2004)
  • Only man can truly be ugly, because he has the free will to estrange himself... from this song of praise.

  • There's Abraham, whose dedication to his mission manages to estrange both his wife and his son.

    Blog text (23)
  • Then, having thoroughly estranged her, he heaps on more, claiming that he would hold her as the most alien of all strangers.

  • Estranged from nature, what other portion of it responds even occasionally to our coaxing?

    Fiction book (1991)
  • In the absence of routine social contact between blacks and whites, stereotypes can rule perceptions, creating a situation that estranges blacks.

    Academic text (2017)
  • Mayfield is finally critical of this dream not only because Hubert himself conflates capitalist success with whiteness, but also because such a fantasy actually estranges Hubert from himself.

    Academic text (2017)
  • Her constant criticism began to estrange her colleagues, making collaboration difficult.

Synonyms

to withdraw
vsto estrange
466 2.8

To stop taking part in a place or activity

causes someone to become distant rather than the person choosing to leave
to isolate
vsto estrange
256 4.2

To keep someone or something apart from others

causes emotional distance without requiring total social separation
to alienate
vsto estrange
123 6.7

To make someone feel alone and lose support from others

causes emotional distance and unfriendly feelings rather than physical isolation
to pull away
vsto estrange
86 3.5

To move away from people or a place to create space

causes someone else to become distant rather than starting one's own movement
to distance
vsto estrange
77 5.7

To make yourself less involved with someone or something

causes someone else to feel distant rather than self initiated withdrawal
to distance oneself from
vsto estrange
75 7.0

Keep away from someone or something to show no connection

causes someone to become distant rather than being a deliberate self choice
to drive away
vsto estrange
71 3.4

To force a person, animal, or feeling to go away

causes emotional distance without necessarily forcing someone to leave
to push away
vsto estrange
43 3.2

To stop other people from getting close to you emotionally

causes others to become distant by making them unfriendly or cold
to disassociate
vsto estrange
16 7.0

To end a connection with a person, group, or idea

causes emotional distance rather than only ending formal links
to push people away
vsto estrange
8 5.6

Act in a way that makes other people avoid you

causes others to become distant whether intended or not
to dissociate
vsto estrange
3 6.7

To stop being involved with a person, group, or idea

causes emotional coldness in someone rather than simply ending association
to disaffect
vsto estrange
  • Formal
1 8.3

To make someone stop feeling loyal to a leader or group

causes loss of close emotional bond rather than political loyalty
to put daylight between
vsto estrange
8.8

To create distance from someone or something to avoid being too close

causes others to feel unfriendly rather than distancing oneself to avoid involvement

Antonyms

572 1.8

Build a friendly relationship with someone by talking or listening

38 5.1

To become friendly again after a disagreement

How Distant

to sever
67 5.8
to alienate
123 6.7
to estrange
  • Formal
2 7.5
to drive away
71 3.4
to distance
77 5.7

Surface Forms

estrange infinitive
estranged past
estranged past participle
estranging present participle
estranges third person singular

Morphology

estrange = strange (semi-transparent) = e + strange

The prefix 'e-' (from Latin 'ex-') suggests 'out of' or 'away from', but the specific meaning of causing emotional distance is not entirely predictable.

Etymology

The word estrange comes from old words that meant 'outside' or 'foreign' and is related to the familiar word stranger. So, to estrange someone is to make them feel like an 'outsider' or no longer friendly, which is why it means to make someone distant.