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decorous

decorous

3 7.9
Polite and showing good manners in formal situations
  • adjective
  • /ˈdɛkərəs/
  • Formal
: decoroso
  • The students behaved in a decorous manner during the school assembly, showing respect for their teachers.
  • decorous conduct
  • more decorous

And she was trying to find some semi decorous way of maintaining the position.

Examples

  • Now, remember that a bank is a quiet and decorous place, - so be on our best behavior.

  • Multiple versions of We Had a Nice Time in Zambia, which usually show a decorous multiracial drinking scene, are suitable for purchase by departing expatriates.

    Academic text (1997)
  • A polka can be a decorous, contained dance.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • In its place was a decorous stone wall surrounded by hemlock bushes.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • His black suit, bowed head, and somber face embodied decorous grief.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • More specifically, Landes was criticized for hobnobbing with humble descendants of former slaves rather than conducting decorous formal interviews and socializing with the local elite.

    Academic text (1997)
  • Rules governing moral comportment and commercial exchange within gated civic piazzas fostered a decorous ambience for the official functions taking place within, regardless of the everyday bustle.

    Academic text (2015)
  • At the formal dinner, everyone was decorous, ensuring their manners and attire were appropriate for the occasion.

  • She gave a decorous smile and nodded politely as the speaker finished his speech.

Synonyms

classy
vsdecorous
165 4.1

Being elegant and stylish and showing good taste

emphasizes proper, polite conduct alongside stylish looks
elegant
vsdecorous
163 3.3

Having an attractive, stylish look that shows good taste

adds correct polite behaviour and dignified social manners
respectful
vsdecorous
146 1.1

Being polite and showing admiration for someone

places that respect within a formal, tasteful social style
civilized
vsdecorous
66 4.4

Polite with good manners and refined taste

focuses more narrowly on formal politeness and tasteful bearing
dignified
vsdecorous
64 4.6

Calm and serious in a way that shows self respect and gets respect from others

emphasizes polite taste and formal dignity
courteous
vsdecorous
39 3.7

Polite and respectful when you speak or behave

also requires formal taste and composed, dignified bearing
tasteful
vsdecorous
37 3.9

Showing good style and polite manners

combines style with correct, polite social behaviour
refined
vsdecorous
  • Formal
25 4.1

Showing elegant, polite manners and good taste

adds formal politeness and proper social manners
polite
vsdecorous
23 1.0

Having elegant manners and good taste in art or dress

stresses formal dignity and correct social conduct
cultured
vsdecorous
21 5.1

A person who likes and understands art, music, and books

places more weight on correct polite behaviour in social settings
gentlemanly
vsdecorous
16 4.4

Polite and considerate in a calm, respectful way

is gender neutral and stresses polite dignity for anyone
genteel
vsdecorous
13 7.7

Polite and elegant in a way that tries to impress others

keeps refinement but avoids affectation, stressing sincere taste
well-mannered
vsdecorous
12 2.9

Polite and respectful to other people

adds a formal, tasteful quality beyond mere correctness
courtly
vsdecorous
  • Literature
6 7.2

Polite and elegant like people at a royal court

applies refinement more broadly to polite, proper conduct
becoming
vsdecorous
  • Formal
4 4.6

Suitable and proper for a situation

also requires polite manners and a tasteful, dignified tone
prim and proper
vsdecorous
4 7.0

Very formal and correct in clothes and manners, often strict and stiff

keeps formality but aims for tasteful politeness rather than stiffness
seemly
vsdecorous
  • Formal
3 7.4

Suitable for a situation and following polite rules

highlights polite taste and composed dignity beyond mere correctness
mannerly
vsdecorous
2 4.1

Polite and behaving well around other people

adds a dignified tone and emphasis on tasteful manners
comme il faut
vsdecorous
  • Formal
1 9.9

Proper and polite in a way accepted by society

adds refined taste and polite, dignified manners to correctness
mannerable
vsdecorous
  • Archaic
1 7.3

Being polite and treating people with respect

is more formal and stresses refined, dignified bearing
comely
vsdecorous
  • Archaic
1 9.1

Proper and polite in behavior or appearance

is more specific about polite manners and dignified taste

Antonyms

93 4.1

Not suitable according to normal rules or standards

indecorous
  • Formal
1 9.2

Not showing good manners in public or formal places

How Proper

prim
11 7.0
proper
784 2.2
decorous
  • Formal
3 7.9
polite
336 1.0
improper
93 4.1
rude
558 1.0

Surface Forms

decorous positive

Morphology

decorous = decor (opaque) = decor + ous

Although formed from 'decor' + '-ous', the modern noun 'decor' (interior decoration) does not transparently yield the sense 'behaving properly'; the semantic link is historical rather than predictable for learners.

Etymology

Decorous comes from the Latin word decor, which means 'beauty' or 'good taste'. Think of decorate or room decor — things made neat and proper — so decorous means behaving in a proper, polite, and dignified way.