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prim

prim

4 7.0
Very formal and proper in a stiff, old-fashioned way
  • adjective
  • /prɪm/
translation icon : formal
  • Lily d'Bulier is prim, proper, and likes to consider herself pragmatic rather than timid.
  • prim and proper
  • very prim
  • so prim

Then I also bought a skirt from a Selfridge and I bought this because I do think that sometimes I dress a bit too prim and proper.

Examples

  • Poor Marion Crane, always so tight, so respectable, so prim and so proper.

  • Lady Lily d'Bulier is prim, proper, and prefers to think of herself as pragmatic rather than timid.

    Blog text (21)
  • It's not exactly prim and proper.

  • What I mean is, he thinks I'm sort of... prim and proper, you know.

  • A time when the core of society was rotten... even though on the surface it appeared prim and proper.

    Blog text (19)
  • I knew you weren't as prim and starchy as they made out.

  • I always think of people from the nineteenth century as being all prim and proper, but they weren't.

    Blog text (6)
  • "Yes, Frances?" Edwina pretended to look very prim and proper.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • I think of Ora sitting as prim and proper as any antebellum lady, and I feel a jangling of the nerves, a ripple of excitement.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • The teacher always dressed prim and proper for her classes, setting a formal tone for her students.

Synonyms

formal
vsprim
  • Formal
394 3.0

Official and proper in a way suitable for important occasions

is more about exaggerated personal propriety than public ceremonial occasions
dignified
vsprim
71 4.6

Calm and serious in a way that shows self respect and gets respect from others

is more about stiff, exaggerated politeness rather than calm respectability
genteel
vsprim
14 7.7

Polite and elegant in a way that tries to impress others

is more about strict, exaggerated manners than refined showiness
puritanical
vsprim
14 8.2

Disapproving of pleasure and very strict about moral behavior

is less about forbidding pleasure and more about old-fashioned proper manners
prissy
vsprim
  • Informal
13 7.9

Too fussy about being neat and proper

is about firm formality and old-fashioned manners rather than shock
Victorian
vsprim
8 8.2

Having very strict old-fashioned ideas about sex and how people should behave

is about stiff formal manners rather than broad historical moral codes
prudish
vsprim
8 7.1

Easily shocked by sex and strict about modesty

is broader, covering exaggerated manners and formality beyond sexual modesty
4 7.1

Very strict about correct behavior and manners

is more focused on polite formality and stiff manners than strict morals
3 7.0

Very formal and correct in clothes and manners, often strict and stiff

leans more toward exaggerated personal manners than public ceremony
decorous
vsprim
  • Formal
3 7.9

Polite and showing good manners in formal situations

is more exaggerated and old-fashioned in manners than simple propriety
straitlaced
vsprim
1 8.4

Very strict about manners and morals and disapproving of anything seen as improper

is about stiff, formal politeness and old-fashioned correctness rather than only morals
priggish
vsprim
  • Offensive
1 9.9

Acting as if you are better than others about rules and manners

focuses more on exaggerated good manners without moral superiority
strait-laced
vsprim
1 7.8

Very strict about behavior and dress

leans toward manners, showing exaggerated politeness rather than moral severity
straightlaced
vsprim
  • US
1 8.2

Having very strict rules about proper behaviour and dress

emphasizes formal manners and exaggerated politeness rather than moral judgment
primy
vsprim
  • Archaic
9.9

Too formal and neat in a way that feels cold

focuses more on very formal manners and old-fashioned correctness
niminy-piminy
vsprim
  • Archaic
9.9

Too careful about manners in an obvious fake way

is more broadly very formal and proper rather than just delicate affectation
mincing
vsprim
8.9

Speaking or moving in a small, careful way to seem more refined than they are

uses general old-fashioned formal correctness rather than affected daintiness
ladyish
vsprim
  • Archaic
7.2

Having neat, polite style and manners like a proper woman

focuses more on formal stiffness and exaggerated correctness rather than gender
old-maidish
vsprim
  • Offensive
9.9

Being very fussy about neatness and proper behaviour

is similar but not limited to a gendered, ageing stereotype
old-womanish
vsprim
  • Offensive
9.3

Being too fussy about small things in a way seen as typical of older women

covers general exaggerated formal manners not only the gendered stereotype
tight-laced
vsprim
8.1

Being very strict about how people behave and dress

is more about correct manners and old-fashioned formality than moral strictness

Antonyms

241 1.0

Calm and not worried

98 3.1

Not formal or official, relaxed and casual

Idioms

Very formal and correct in clothes and manners, often strict and stiff

How Proper

prissy
  • Informal
13 7.9
prim
4 7.0
proper
596 2.2
neat
144 1.0
casual
194 2.8

Surface Forms

prim positive

Etymology

Prim is linked to primp, 'to make neat or tidy', and you can also hear it in the phrase prim and proper. That's why if someone is prim they are very formal, tidy, and a little old-fashioned in their manners.