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seemly

seemly

2 7.4
Suitable for a situation and following polite rules
  • adjective
  • /ˈsiːmli/
  • Formal
translation icon : decoroso
  • "As soon as it is seemly and possible."
  • seemly behavior

Examples

  • "Excellent lady, this is not seemly!" he exclaimed.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • But it would be seemly for her to meet with another Quaker girl.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • My dear, it would perhaps be more seemly if you were to leave us.

  • Wouldn't be very seemly for a minister to break the law, would it?

  • It is not seemly to be so curious about a young man- and why not?

  • This is not seemly behavior, and I intend to make that point incandescently clear.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • And if the received education was to be praised, it would be more seemly if the praise came from one of the educated rather than from one of the educators.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • When you were fourteen, I hoped you would turn your energies to more seemly pursuits, such as Columba has always preferred.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • I have met with Mrs. Ivory and found her a strong-willed woman of forcible and perhaps ill-founded opinions regarding certain social issues, but her behavior was perfectly seemly, and she is obviously devoted to her daughter, who is well cared for, in good health, and progressing with her education in a most satisfactory manner.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • It is important for public figures to act in a seemly manner during official events.

Synonyms

decorous
vsseemly
  • Formal
3 7.9

Polite and showing good manners in formal situations

is the neutral standard of appropriateness rather than focused dignity or elegance
mannerly
vsseemly
1 4.1

Polite and behaving well around other people

is broader, covering general propriety beyond just polite manners
comme il faut
vsseemly
  • Formal
1 9.9

Proper and polite in a way accepted by society

is the neutral, widely used adjective for acceptable behavior
comely
vsseemly
  • Archaic
1 9.1

Proper and polite in behavior or appearance

is about general conformity to proper conduct rather than mainly appearance
becoming
vsseemly
  • Formal
4.6

Suitable and proper for a situation

is broader, applying to general proper conduct rather than just suitability of appearance

Antonyms

354 3.7

Not right for a situation or event

100 4.1

Not suitable according to normal rules or standards

How Seemly

decorous
  • Formal
3 7.9
proper
596 2.2
appropriate
962 3.5
seemly
  • Formal
2 7.4
improper
100 4.1
unseemly
33 7.8
indecent
  • NSFW
43 6.7

Surface Forms

seemly positive

Morphology

seemly = seem (semi-transparent) = seem + ly

Formed from 'seem' + '-ly', but the modern adjective meaning 'proper, fitting' is not the direct sense an average learner would derive from 'seem' ('appear').

Etymology

Seemly comes from the old word seem, which once meant 'fit' or 'proper', not only 'appear'. So seemly describes behavior that is 'proper' or 'appropriate', which is why we use it for polite, accepted actions.