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polite

polite

18 1.0
Having elegant manners and good taste in art or dress
  • adjective
  • /pəˈlaɪt/
translation icon : refinado
  • We need to teach y'all a lesson about how to behave in polite society.
  • polite society
  • polite conversation

In depth interviews and the antiseptic mathematical rigor of Tukey is welcomed in polite society.

Examples

  • Candyman had been sent to all the best schools, and had grown up in polite society.

  • Michel becomes impatient with the restraints of French polite society and longs again for the desert.

    Academic text (1990)
  • The kind woman carried on a polite conversation with her visitors.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • And that made him feel more at home than all this polite talk.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • Now, now, now, now, Mr Bond, you must learn to be absolutely calm before we can accept you back into polite society.

  • Walter, in polite society, the word is "appointment."

  • It's taken for granted, sometimes mocked, and often shunned in polite conversation.

    Academic text (2004)
  • The formality of the polite exchange couldn't mask its quiet intensity.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • They all must be shunned, excommunicated from polite society.

  • He was always polite to his guests, making sure they felt comfortable and welcome.

Synonyms

civil
vspolite
585 3.9

Polite but not friendly or warm

expresses richer cultured refinement and tasteful manners rather than minimal courtesy
respectful
vspolite
150 1.1

Being polite and showing admiration for someone

focuses more on refined manners and social taste rather than deference
civilized
vspolite
80 4.4

Polite with good manners and refined taste

emphasizes individual refinement of taste and manners rather than social progress
courteous
vspolite
43 3.7

Polite and respectful when you speak or behave

places more emphasis on refined taste and cultured manners than on respect
well-behaved
vspolite
25 2.8

Polite and calm around other people

focuses on refined taste and manners rather than obedient acceptable behaviour
gentlemanly
vspolite
17 4.4

Polite and considerate in a calm, respectful way

is general cultured manners and taste rather than specific gendered conduct
genteel
vspolite
14 7.7

Polite and elegant in a way that tries to impress others

is more neutral refinement and taste without the implied affectation
well-mannered
vspolite
10 2.9

Polite and respectful to other people

highlights cultured refinement and taste rather than taught social rules
cultured
vspolite
5 5.1

A person who likes and understands art, music, and books

is a more general word for good manners and social refinement
refined
vspolite
  • Formal
4 4.1

Showing elegant, polite manners and good taste

focuses on general social manners rather than very elegant style
decorous
vspolite
  • Formal
3 7.9

Polite and showing good manners in formal situations

is more about general refinement and cultured manners than strict propriety
mannerly
vspolite
1 4.1

Polite and behaving well around other people

emphasizes elegant refinement and taste more than obedient social correctness
well behaved
vspolite
1 1.2

A child or pet that acts politely and calmly

emphasizes cultured refinement and social taste rather than mere obedience
mannerable
vspolite
  • Archaic
1 7.3

Being polite and treating people with respect

stresses cultured refinement and taste rather than simple everyday courtesy
cultivated
vspolite
  • Formal
5.4

Having good education, polite manners, and good taste

lays stress on manners and taste generally rather than learned education
gentlemanlike
vspolite
7.9

Showing polite and respectful manners and appearance

focuses on refinement in manners broadly, not only old fashioned behaviour

Antonyms

52 6.1

Showing little good taste or refinement in style

uncultured
  • Offensive
3 5.6

Showing little interest in art or books and having bad manners

Compounds

Very formal and cold in a way that makes people feel unwelcome

How Refined

sophisticated
86 6.7
cultured
5 5.1
genteel
14 7.7
polite
18 1.0
uncultured
  • Offensive
3 5.6

Surface Forms

polite positive
politer comparative
politest superlative

Etymology

The word polite comes from the Latin polire, 'to polish', and long ago it meant 'polished' in the sense of 'refined' or cultured. That's why polite can describe someone with smooth, careful manners and good taste.