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to break someone's heart

to break someone's heart

34 3.4
To make someone very sad because of love or disappointment
  • phrasal verb
  • /breɪk ˈsʌmˌwʌnz hɑrt/
  • Informal
translation icon : romperle el corazón a alguien
  • He didn't mean to break her heart when he said those things.
  • going to break someone's heart
  • knows it will break her heart
  • want to break my someone's heart

Most of us are devastated if we believe we broke someone's heart, even if they behave badly.

Examples

Synonyms

to hurt
vsto break someone's heart
1.0

Make someone suffer physical or emotional pain

is specifically deep sadness often caused by love or disappointment
to hit
vsto break someone's heart
2.8

To suddenly make someone feel a strong emotion

is deep emotional pain often connected to love or disappointment
to crush
vsto break someone's heart
386 4.7

To defeat completely, often by force, ending a group or idea

is intense emotional pain usually from love or disappointment
to wound
vsto break someone's heart
110 5.7

To hurt a person's feelings deeply

focuses on deep sadness especially from love or disappointment
to grieve
vsto break someone's heart
95 4.1

To make someone feel very sad

is deep sadness often specifically caused by love or disappointment
to get (someone) down
vsto break someone's heart
  • Informal
87 4.2

To make someone feel sad or discouraged

is deep emotional pain rather than milder unhappiness or discouragement
to sadden
vsto break someone's heart
76 2.3

To make someone feel sad

is deeper intense sadness specifically from love or disappointment
to injure
vsto break someone's heart
52 2.5

Hurt someone's feelings by saying or doing something

is deeper emotional pain often from love or disappointment
to shatter
vsto break someone's heart
48 4.6

Cause deep pain to someone's feelings and destroy their hopes

is deep sadness often caused by love or disappointment
to pain
vsto break someone's heart
45 4.9

To make someone feel sad or upset

is deep sadness often arising from love or disappointment
to depress
vsto break someone's heart
32 4.1

To make someone feel sad and lose hope

is deep emotional pain tied more to love and disappointment
to sting
vsto break someone's heart
26 3.3

To feel sharp emotional pain after someone says something hurtful

is longer lasting deep pain usually caused by love or disappointment
reduced to tears
vsto break someone's heart
1 4.6

To make someone cry because of a strong feeling like sadness or joy

is deep sadness usually from love or disappointment not just strong emotion
to lacerate
vsto break someone's heart
1 7.6

To deeply hurt someone's feelings

is deep sadness often linked to love or disappointment
to cut to the quick
vsto break someone's heart
  • Literature
1 7.9

To hurt someone's feelings very deeply

is deep sadness usually from love or disappointment

Antonyms

481 1.2

To become healthy again after an injury, illness, or emotional pain

172 1.0

To make someone feel less upset or in pain

How Heartbreaking

to devastate
221 4.9
to break someone's heart
  • Informal
34 3.4
to upset
362 1.0
to disappoint
492 1.0

Surface Forms

broken someone's heart past participle
breaking someone's heart present participle
breaks someone's heart third person singular

Morphology

break + someone's + heart

The meaning is directly derivable from combining 'break' (to damage or cause to fail) with 'heart' used metaphorically as the center of emotions; together they naturally convey causing emotional pain. This metaphorical mapping (heart = emotions) is common across many languages, so an average B1 learner who knows the constituents will likely infer the MWE's meaning.

Etymology

Break someone's heart may come from the old idea that the heart is where we keep love and feelings, and to break it is like badly hurting those feelings inside. So saying you break someone's heart means you cause them great sadness or 'heartache'.