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to lacerate

to lacerate

1 7.6
To deeply hurt someone's feelings
  • verb
  • /ˈlæsəˌreɪt/
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  • Of course, the guilty lovers insult each other as well, saying unforgivable things calculated to do great injury—to lacerate, pierce, and demolish.

Examples

  • He lacerated his soul the way he'd been taught by his mother to tug a fine-toothed steel comb through his coarse, oily hair: never less than once.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • The words had lacerated me like knives.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • She lacerates herself with memory.

  • Here was an aggravation to the already lacerated feelings of the injured man.

    Blog text (9)
  • Her words lacerated.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • Her voice grew harsher, and the humiliation and bitterness lay like an open wound, still lacerated, still pouring blood.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • Suddenly, horrified, I find myself flat on the ground, far from her head and torso (which, although terribly destroyed, were still coherent enough to recall her face, her being, her sublime, though lacerated, beauty).

    Fiction book (1996)
  • The harsh words from her friend lacerated her deeply, leaving her heartbroken.

  • Memories of the past can lacerate the soul, causing pain long after the events have passed.

  • His criticism lacerated her confidence, making her doubt her abilities.

Synonyms

to wound
vsto lacerate
110 5.7

To hurt a person's feelings deeply

is a harsher term implying a more sudden and severe emotional cutting
to traumatize
vsto lacerate
87 6.9

To cause someone to feel very shocked and upset

is deep emotional hurting without implying clinical long term shock
to injure
vsto lacerate
52 2.5

Hurt someone's feelings by saying or doing something

is stronger and deeper emotional harm rather than general offending
to pain
vsto lacerate
45 4.9

To make someone feel sad or upset

is more intense and wounds deeply rather than causing general sadness
to break someone's heart
vsto lacerate
  • Informal
34 3.4

To make someone very sad because of love or disappointment

is a general deep emotional harm not limited to romantic loss
to bruise
vsto lacerate
  • Informal
33 4.2

To hurt someone's feelings or pride

is deeper and more painful emotional damage than a mere hurt to pride
to sting
vsto lacerate
26 3.3

To feel sharp emotional pain after someone says something hurtful

is deeper and longer lasting emotional damage rather than quick pain
to have a sting
vsto lacerate
1 7.1

To cause a sharp feeling of hurt that lasts for a while

is deeper painful injury rather than a milder persistent discomfort
to cut to the quick
vsto lacerate
  • Literature
1 7.9

To hurt someone's feelings very deeply

is deeper and more lasting emotional harm than a brief sharp hurt
to lace into
vsto lacerate
  • NSFW
8.5

Criticize or attack someone strongly

is emotional damaging hurt rather than a forceful verbal attack

Antonyms

172 1.0

To make someone feel less upset or in pain

40 3.9

To comfort someone who feels sad or disappointed

How Hurtful

to devastate
221 4.9
to lacerate
1 7.6
to hurt
1.0
to upset
362 1.0
to bother
1.0

Surface Forms

lacerate infinitive
lacerated past
lacerated past participle
lacerating present participle
lacerates third person singular

Morphology

lacerate = lacer + ate

The emotional sense is historically related to the same Latin root but the constituent parts are not recognisable to learners, so the metaphorical meaning is not transparently derived.

Etymology

Lacerate in the emotional sense comes from the same Latin lacerare, 'to tear', used as a strong picture. So to lacerate someone's feelings is to 'tear' them emotionally, meaning to hurt them deeply and painfully.