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to have a sting

to have a sting

1 7.1
To cause a sharp feeling of hurt that lasts for a while
  • idiom
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  • Although he tried to be polite, his words had a sting that hurt her feelings.

If those words didn't have a sting, I guess I'd be all for Yarin.

Examples

  • Of course her words had a sting, it would ...

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  • If those words didn't have a sting, I guess I'd be all for Yarin.

  • Her critical comments had a sting that lingered long after the meeting.

  • The letter was kind at first, but it ended with a line that had a sting.

Synonyms

to hurt
vsto have a sting
1.0

Make someone suffer physical or emotional pain

focuses specifically on sharp emotional pain that leaves lasting discomfort
to burn
vsto have a sting
706 1.8

To feel a hot, stinging pain after heat or chemicals

is focused on emotional sharpness and longer lasting uncomfortable feeling
to wound
vsto have a sting
110 5.7

To hurt a person's feelings deeply

is about making someone feel sharply hurt but also leaving continued discomfort
to bite
vsto have a sting
92 3.1

To cause a sharp, stinging pain, often from cold or wind

is emotional rather than mainly physical and often leaves longer discomfort
to pain
vsto have a sting
45 4.9

To make someone feel sad or upset

is narrower, implying a sharp, stinging emotional quality and lasting effect
to pierce
vsto have a sting
28 4.6

To cause a sudden strong feeling in someone

is about causing sharp emotional pain that continues beyond the sudden impact
to sting
vsto have a sting
26 3.3

To feel sharp emotional pain after someone says something hurtful

is about a sharp feeling that leaves lasting emotional discomfort
to prick
vsto have a sting
14 4.7

To cause a small sharp pain like a sting

is more specifically about emotional sting that lasts and troubles someone
to prickle
vsto have a sting
4 4.0

Cause a small stinging or tingling feeling on the skin

is stronger, implying clear emotional hurt that remains after the moment
to sting like a bee
vsto have a sting
  • Informal
3 7.7

To say something that hurts someone suddenly and sharply

is more about causing a sharp emotional ache that remains afterward
to nettle
vsto have a sting
2 6.8

To annoy or upset someone in a way that feels sharp

is about causing actual emotional pain and a lasting sense of discomfort
to lacerate
vsto have a sting
1 7.6

To deeply hurt someone's feelings

is broader, focusing on sharp lasting discomfort rather than only intense harm
to cut to the quick
vsto have a sting
  • Literature
1 7.9

To hurt someone's feelings very deeply

is similar but stresses a lasting, lingering hurt rather than only offence

Antonyms

481 1.2

To become healthy again after an injury, illness, or emotional pain

172 1.0

To make someone feel less upset or in pain

How Hurtful

to devastate
221 4.9
to wound
110 5.7
to have a sting
1 7.1
to hurt
1.0
to offend
524 2.8

Surface Forms

have a sting infinitive
had a sting past participle
having a sting present participle
has a sting third person singular

Morphology

have + a + sting

The meaning is directly derivable from the parts: 'have' (to experience/possess) + 'sting' (a sharp pain or hurt), so 'have a sting' is interpreted as experiencing a sharp/emotional pain. The construction is a straightforward possessive/experiential pattern (have + noun) and the metaphorical use of 'sting' is predictable and cross-linguistically common, so a B1 learner who knows the constituents would likely understand it.

Etymology

Have a sting comes from the picture of an insect's sting: a bee or wasp gives a sudden, sharp pain. If words or actions have a sting, they are like that sharp pain and leave you feeling hurt, so the phrase means 'to cause emotional pain'.