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to up and leave

to up and leave

41 6.3
Go away suddenly without warning or explanation
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
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  • She decided to up and leave her job without warning, shocking her coworkers.
  • get up and leave
  • pack up and leave

You may find that the narcissistic person may get up and leave the relationship, which is a win.

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Examples

  • I figured someone else was about to up and leave me.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • Or maybe she should pull herself together and get up and leave like everybody else.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • And if they want to up and leave, they could.

  • I decided to get up and leave and we both left.

  • Am I supposed to pick up and leave everything?

  • or they just up and leave

  • It's kind of hard to just pick up and leave.

  • So I up and left the pieces there.

  • "You cannot just up and leave after you have said such a terrible thing," she told him.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • And one day, the guy just disappeared, just up and left like without a trace.

Synonyms

to get out of here
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
3.0

Leave a place quickly or suddenly

is sudden as well but emphasizes no explanation needed
to walk away
vsto up and leave
632 3.5

Leave a person, place, or situation without taking part anymore

is sudden but does not require detachment or deliberation
to take off
vsto up and leave
273 3.2

To leave a place quickly, often to travel somewhere else

is sudden and specifically lacks any given reason
to run off
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
260 3.7

To leave a place or person suddenly, often without saying goodbye

is sudden as well but does not imply secrecy or taking others
to bail
vsto up and leave
  • UK
247 7.1

Leave suddenly to avoid a responsibility or task

is sudden too but does not focus on avoiding duties
to blow
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
175 8.4

To leave a place quickly or suddenly

is the same sudden leaving but defined neutrally
to walk out
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
112 3.4

Leave a place suddenly because you are angry or protesting

is sudden but does not require anger or protest
to run out
vsto up and leave
78 2.0

Leave a place suddenly, often to avoid someone or something

is sudden too but does not suggest avoidance motive
to walk off
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
37 3.5

To leave a place suddenly to show you are angry or upset

is sudden too but not tied to visible displeasure
to skip out
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
22 7.2

To leave without telling anyone to avoid a duty or responsibility

is sudden as well but does not specify dodging duties
to left the building
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
21 6.5

To go away from a place, often suddenly or for good

is sudden departure specifically without warning or explanation
to hightail
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
18 8.3

To leave a place very quickly to escape danger or trouble

is also sudden but does not imply escape
to push off
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
14 6.8

Leave a place or start a journey

is sudden too but defined without the informal travel sense
to shove off
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
12 7.7

Leave a place quickly, often in a rude way

is sudden as well but neutral about rudeness
to fly the coop
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
12 7.9

To leave a place suddenly without permission

is sudden too but lacks the idea of escaping a rule
to storm off
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
11 4.5

Leave a place quickly because you are angry

is sudden as well but lacks the angry reaction
to bolt from
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
5 5.8

To leave a place suddenly and unexpectedly

is similar but neutral about reason or fear
to bolt out
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
5 4.9

Leave a place suddenly and quickly because you feel scared

is also sudden but does not imply surprise cause
to vamoose
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
3 8.8

To leave quickly to avoid trouble or questions

matches suddenness but is more neutral about haste
to rush away
vsto up and leave
2 2.5

Leave a place quickly because you are in a hurry

is sudden too but lacks any stated hurry or motive
to blow this popsicle stand
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
1 9.9

To leave a place quickly because you do not want to be there

is sudden too but does not include personal dislike
off like a dirty shirt
vsto up and leave
  • Archaic
1 9.9

Leave a place very quickly

is sudden as well but without the extreme speed focus
French leave
vsto up and leave
  • UK
1 8.9

Going away from a place without telling or asking anyone

is sudden too but is neutral about permission or rules
to pop off
vsto up and leave
  • UK
1 7.9

To leave a place quickly, often without saying goodbye

is sudden too but does not stress lack of notice
to make a bolt
vsto up and leave
6.8

To run away quickly, usually because you are afraid

is about sudden departure without explaining why
to go offski
vsto up and leave
  • Slang
9.9

To leave a place suddenly, usually to go somewhere else

is sudden too but is neutral about eagerness or tone
to leave with a huff
vsto up and leave
  • Informal
7.8

To walk out suddenly while showing anger

is sudden but does not include an emotional display
to sally out
vsto up and leave
9.0

Leave a place where you are hiding suddenly to attack or surprise someone

is sudden too but does not imply an energetic attack
to take your hook
vsto up and leave
  • Archaic
9.9

Leave a place quickly because you are not welcome

is sudden too but lacks any idiomatic phrasing

Antonyms

207 3.7

To stay in a place longer than expected because you do not want to leave

to stay put
  • Informal
133 2.0

Remain in the same place without moving

How Sudden

to bolt
69 2.3
to walk out
  • Informal
112 3.4
to up and leave
  • Informal
41 6.3
to take off
273 3.2
to depart
176 1.3

Surface Forms

up and leave infinitive
up and leaving present participle
ups and leaves third person singular
up and left past participle

Morphology

up + and + leave

While 'leave' clearly means 'to depart', the prefixed sequence 'up and' functions as an idiomatic colloquial intensifier meaning 'suddenly/abruptly' rather than literal upward motion, so the full sense 'depart suddenly without warning' is not directly derivable from the literal meanings of 'up' + 'and' + 'leave'. A B1 learner who knows the constituent words might infer a general notion of leaving but would likely miss the abrupt/without-warning nuance; the 'up and V' pattern exists in English but its pragmatic force is not fully predictable.

Etymology

Up and leave comes from the simple image of someone suddenly standing up and then leaving the room. That's why it now means 'to depart suddenly and without warning'.