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to pull in one's horns

to pull in one's horns

1 9.0
To become less confident and not try as hard after problems
  • idiom
  • UK
translation icon : moderar
  • When their profits dropped, the restaurant owners pulled in their horns and postponed the renovations.

Examples

  • After the budget cuts, the company had to pull in its horns and limit new projects.

  • Facing mounting opposition, the politician decided to pull in her horns and withdraw the proposal.

  • Don't pull in your horns!

  • After the failure, she decided to pull in her horns.

  • After losing a big client, the company decided to pull in its horns and focus on its existing customers.

  • Following the recent financial losses, he had to pull in his horns and reconsider his investment strategies.

  • The team chose to pull in their horns after realizing the project was too ambitious for their current resources.

Synonyms

to withdraw
vsto pull in one's horns
466 2.8

To stop taking part in a place or activity

means reducing assertiveness and ambition specifically after setbacks
to retreat
vsto pull in one's horns
235 4.0

To move back from a place or plan to avoid danger

is about reducing ambition and assertiveness rather than safety
to pull back
vsto pull in one's horns
162 3.4

To move yourself and things backward from a place, person, or situation

lessens assertiveness and ambition rather than just moving away
to back away
vsto pull in one's horns
59 3.9

Stop supporting or taking part in a plan because you feel unsure

focuses on lowering ambition and assertiveness after problems
to get off one's high horse
vsto pull in one's horns
  • Informal
5 8.2

Stop acting as if you are better than others

is about reducing aggression and ambition rather than pride alone
to draw back
vsto pull in one's horns
4 4.1

To move backwards away from something because of fear or surprise

is about choosing to be less assertive after setbacks
to call off the dogs
vsto pull in one's horns
  • Informal
2 7.7

Stop criticizing or attacking someone after being angry

applies more broadly to lowering personal drive and assertiveness
to lower one's sights
vsto pull in one's horns
  • Informal
1 6.9

Choose smaller goals that are easier to reach when big ones feel impossible

lowers assertiveness and ambition especially after facing setbacks
to pull one's head in
vsto pull in one's horns
  • UK
1 9.5

Be quieter and more careful about what you say

reduces aggression and ambition especially after setbacks
to climb down from one's high horse
vsto pull in one's horns
  • Informal
1 8.5

To stop acting like you are better than other people

reduces assertive and ambitious behaviour after difficulties

How Assertive

to stand your ground
  • Informal
25 5.7
to pull in one's horns
  • UK
1 9.0
to hold back
108 4.2

Surface Forms

pull in one's horns infinitive
pulled in one's horns past
pulled in one's horns past participle
pulling in one's horns present participle
pulls in one's horns third person singular

Morphology

pull + in + one + horns

The phrase literally suggests drawing one’s horns inward — combining 'pull in' (draw inside) with 'horns' produces an image of retracting an aggressive weapon, so a learner who knows the words could infer a metaphorical sense of retreating or showing restraint. However, mapping that animal image onto the social meaning 'become less aggressive or ambitious' requires metaphorical/pragmatic inference and some cultural knowledge, so it is only partially predictable to a B1 learner.

Etymology

The idiom pull in one's horns may come from the picture of an animal that uses its horns to fight. When it pulls them in it cannot attack, so the phrase came to mean 'be less aggressive or ambitious'.